I feel so badly!

[wolflady]

Hello everyone,

I feel so badly. My hurting is very painful. One man and I met from an Internet . His name is George Thompson. He and I were played a joking. I ignored him a few months ago. Last month, he and I were really like each other like "loving" I tried to him a question. I said to him, Do you have any kids? He answered me, He had three sons. Two older boys are almost like my age. One younger is 8 years old as my half-brother Timmy. I felt not right from him. He had twice from ex-wife. If he will marry me to become a third wife. Now, I feel so badly.

I remember the Bible said "One man and one woman is together from God's eyes. Do not other woman or man side from the marriage." I trust it. I noticed it's not right place. I feel very hurting and start crying myself. It's so hard to me on a life.

This game is very stupid.

Christy

Thank you for advance advisor!

 

[erinm]

trust in God that you will meet someone that You feel has been sent from God. Don't stop praying to Him about it. He knows what is in your heart, but He wants us to need him and want to come to him.

 

[wolflady]

This is so embarrassment to me.

Christy

 

[Living4Him03]

I agree with erinm. God will bring the right man into your life. If you don't feel right about this man then chances are he is not right for you.

 

[wolflady]

You mean he is wrong person to me. Is it right?

Christy

 

[Suzannah]

Oh, Christy, I'm so sorry you were hurt! That's terrible. But you know what, you don't have to be embarrassed. If I told you the mistakes I made!!! It's okay to make a mistake...don't stop talking to God and telling Him what you feel, what you want. He listens and He is working on it. Even when He doesn't seem to answer, that just means He is working on it. Don't give up. And you're not alone. :hugs

 

[wolflady]

Yeah, I don't know a reason. I find out his older son same my age. I maybe his son will be angry at me and kill me or what? I feel awkard myself. I don't want to talk him.

Christy

 

[wolflady]

He had two old sons when he did not married before. And then, he married second wife and had one son Anthony. He was 8 years old. After 10 years, they are divorced now. That's so crazy. I feel not right person of him.

That's not good idea to me.

 

[SlowRoasted]

i could have swore i posted in this forum, where did my posts go?

 

[wolflady]

Slowroasted, I have one other same from Friendship courts, but not enough it. i want to know an advance advisior. I dislike a simple.

Christy

 

[SirKenin]

If the man divorced for adultery, or he was a Christian and his non-Christian spouse chose to walk away, it is ok for him to remarry according to the Bible.

For him to divorce his wife for any other reason, he causes his wife to commit adultery should she remarry, and anyone that marries him also commits adultery, IIRC.

I would stay away from him for a couple of reasons, myself. He's dragging his problems and baggage from relationship to relationship, marriage to marriage. He isn't learning and repeating the same mistakes over again. You can't tell me he's right and three women are wrong. Then you have to think about where he's fishing for his next relationship, and whether or not he is divorcing for Biblical reasons.

Do yourself a favor. Try fishing in a different pond.

 

[wolflady]

What's a three woman wrong for?

Christy

 

[wolflady]

I am confused it.

Christy

 

[SirKenin]

Three women divorced him, or vice versa. Why? That's the first clue you're looking for.


edit: oops. two women divorced him. And others left.. heh. I was close. Same idea though.

 

[wolflady]

oh I understand. He had only two wives, but divorced him. I am not married him yet, but I find out about him. He have any problems for his wives. It's not three wives.

Christy

 

[SirKenin]

yes, I just edited my post, as I just now caught my error.

 

[wolflady]

That's okay. Do you think he had his mistaken on his life? His ex-wife was not want a moving with him when he live in Georgia. She favors to stay in New York. And then, He decided to not loving with her.

Christy

 

[Living4Him03]

Sounds like this man has some complicated things going on in his life and may be trying to drag you into his problems! I would advise that you just remain friends with him and let him know you are praying for him. As far as dating him, I would advise you against that.

 

[SlowRoasted]

after reading your last post i think you would be stupid to persue that guy.

 

[wolflady]

Hey, Slowroasted,

I try to make sure. I ask you on question. That's all it. I don't understand to mean. My writing is very poor. I make to clear understanding it. Shut up!

No matter, Living4Him03! "I would advise that you just remain friends with him and let him know you are praying for him. As far as dating him, I would advise you against that."

What's you meaning? You mean you will advise me that sue me.

Christy