i feel like

[soyness]

I chase people away. I feel like when people really get to know me, then they know the bad part of me, and then they run away, even guys.

also, I don't know how to deal with anger problem. I get angry and I dont' know how to upset it.

what is more depressing is that people like to be around positive people. And I dearly *wish* to be a person like that, but I never was really. I wanna be treated with this negativity and all this. well.. help me.

 

[Amin]

Hi,

What do you mean by, bad side?

I think we all have things about us that people don't like, But a friend overlooks those things and is your friend anyway.

I can't see how you can chase people
away.
Maybe I'm just different, but i think if you want to be friends, there will always be a time we do something others don't like.

Being a friend, we overlook it.

Chuck.

 

[pockleberry]

I know what you mean about chasing people away and i'm probably guilty of doing the same thing...do you know what your bad part is? That might sound an odd question but sometimes we just have a belief that we are bad and we don't bother to check it out so we don't know what it is in us that we don't like, but if you can find what it is then you can try to change it if it needs changing. Everyone has bad things about them like Amin said but real friends love you for the good things about you and will overlook the bad stuff. I don't know much about anger problems but maybe you could try to find some other ways of expressing your feelings, anger isn't a bad thing it's just what you do with it that can be bad.

It is true that people like to be with positive people but don't beat yourself up for not being like that, you can offer something different that is just as valid as being possitive, I don't know you so I don't know what that is but I know that everyone has something to offer, something special about them that only they can bring to a relationship.