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I feel like a failure

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Shalomgurl-

Anyway- There are times we all feel like leaving this world behind. I totally understand. The thing is, if you do end your life now- what will you say to G-d?

Things may be really difficult now... but you don't know the future- G-d does. What if you end your life now, and just a year from now, G-d had planned on blessing you with such a wonderful experience... but, since you decided to take your own life, you'd never get to see the blessing.

What would you say to G-d about it all?
If you were in heaven and He showed you all the joy you would have experienced if you had not taken your life... you would regret that decision... but it would be too late. You couldn't go back to earth and do it over again. You'd feel more like a failure then, than if you had stuck it out here on earth.

And you would end up hurting so many other people by killing yourself.

Talk through your problems... it helps a lot. :)
Shalom~
 
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try and see it from an objective point of view, im sure your the only one that wrongly thinks this, your friends and family would tell you different, what do you think you are failing at ? are you studying or taking exams, im sure its not as bad as you think, youll probably suprise yourself if you concentrate and take each part at a time

if your really not cut out for something then concentrate on parts you are good at and excel at those, this goes with everything in life, we all have a talent at something, if you look at anything big all in one its only natural to panic so its important to take it one thing at a time, sort it out little by little, day by day, you know the score

you are blessed in many ways, you just dont see it right now
 
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