We're sorry to hear about your troubles.
While words of knowledge encourage believers and confirm God's leading, it is important to not depend on them -- it is God we depend on, and He is the same communicating to you, to us, to others. He knows your situation and cares about it. He cares about YO
Perhaps He is not giving a word to people, because He wants you to rely more fully on Him. He does not want us to live like magicians who conjure up amazing information.
He will do that when it is needed, but learning to live wisely is even more needed. If you want help, then seek out someone that you can trust, and exercise wisdom in whom you select. Build your ability to find wise solutions.
I know that sounds insensitive, but it is scriptural.
Proverbs 15:22
Where there is no counsel, plans fail; But in a multitude of counselors they are established.
I agree with trying to live wisely, and for me that means moving on now.
After a certain amount of posts, you can send PM notes to people that you've seen post in a way that you trust and respect. I think you will find a lot more help that way -- and possibly some resources that can help you out locally.
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