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Kris_J said:Western, time is not considered in Zoots argument. Everyone at one time or another does what seemed good, but later on with hindsight they realise that they were wrong. Doing something that seems good doesn't guarantee freedom from regret.
So you are arguing for a discontinuity of self because there is no self? We enter these debates with a few agreed assumptions that we have a self & that there is continuity of self through the discussion. Is this a wrong assumption according to you?Western Deity said:You're considering that a "person" is the same "person" later in time- this is false, IMO. This persistence of self is an illusion, is it not?
You're considering that a "person" is the same "person" later in time- this is false, IMO. This persistence of self is an illusion, is it not?
So you are arguing for a discontinuity of self because there is no self? We enter these debates with a few agreed assumptions that we have a self & that there is continuity of self through the discussion. Is this a wrong assumption according to you?
That's a very naive answer, unless you imply that everything happens according to God's ultimate plan, and society evolved accordingly to it.bluetrinity said:Isn't the question rather why do YOU think you act the way you do. Because my answer is that God planted morals in your heart and you act accordingly.
I think values are more related to ideals rather than real situations. In that sense, right & wrong are measured in terms of a persons ideals, rather than specific situations.Zoot said:I've given some thought to regret and guilt (which is a form of regret). It seems to me that it occurs when someone's values change, and they evaluate a past decision by criteria different from the criteria present at the time the decision was made.
I know that sounds obvious.
I am now a vegetarian, for ethical reasons. I was not always a vegetarian. Looking back, in a sense, I regret having eaten meat so many times. That is to say that while at the time I valued eating meat highly and didn't value vegetarianism at all, I now value vegetarianism over eating meat, and thus now what was good-to-me has become bad-to-me.
I am not more right now than I was before; such an evaluation cannot be made. And when I look back and evaluate, "That was wrong," I am making a statement about my perception of it now, not the action then. When I say, "That was wrong," what I'm really saying is, "That (the past action) is wrong-to-me now."
That's a very gradual change of values, of course. A far more sudden change of values can be found in desire and sated desire. I may be on a diet and value the diet and value weight loss, but I'm very hungry, so I'm also valuing highly a Snickers bar. If I value the Snickers bar over the weight loss, I will eat the Snickers bar. However, in eating the Snickers, I sate my hunger, it diminishes greatly, and I'm left in a situation where I value weight loss far more than I value the action of eating the Snickers bar. Looking back, I regret eating it. In other words, I evaluate the past action as bad.
Kris_J said:Although your situation has changed, your values have not. Ideally values are independent of the current situation - hence people can be seen as "idealistic" rather than "realistic".
It seems to me that someone doesn't believe in right & wrong is a person who doesn't have any ideals.
Ok. I'll try to explain why life is an objective moral value.Dragar said:If, for the sake of argument, your moral code has an 'objective' moral value, then yes, part of it is objective.
But that's circular.
I don't believe objective morality exists. My view is that you think you have an objective moral value though. What you're doing is:
a) Assuming there is an objective morality
b) For reasons you're unable to tell me, concluding that a part of that objective morality includes 'valuing life'.
I'm disagreeing with your assumption and, even if your assumption is correct, unable to fathom how you worked out what is 'objectively moral' and what is not.
Ok. I'll try to explain why life is an objective moral value.
Everybody values life, otherwise they would rather die. Everybody that shares existence with others, don't want to stop it, otherwise they would rather kill themselves. Yes, there are some exceptions, but they only occur in very specific situations and with a motivation. Nobody kills himself just "because I want". They have their own motivations.
If everybody values his life, it's a value for all living beings. So, we can call it a UNIVERSAL MORAL VALUE.
I'm saying that life objectively and universaly values itself, no matter the form of life. It's a law of the universeDragar said:But what are you saying here?
That:
a) Life has the property of being objectively valuable?
or
b) That all humans experience life (subjectively, necessarily) as valuable?
You're assuming that simply because something is valued universally, it is objective. By that same reasoning, if there were some foodstuff that everyone valued (chocolate?) it would be objectively valuable.
Universal may still be universally subjective.
I'm saying that life objectively and universaly values itself, no matter the form of life. It's a law of the universe
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I am a product of my culture. I grew up on '80s cartoons and Christianity and rock music. I value liberty and happiness and consistency (The Value Previously Known As Truth) and justice and I think 13-year-olds are too young to have sex and I think women are equal to men and I think graves should be left alone and I think species extinction is bad and I think greed and hatred are bad.
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Read one of my previous posts. I'm not pretending to say that suicide does not exist. I'm saying that nobody will kill himself "just because he/she wants". They can kill himself, but they always have an excuse for it.Dragar said:You think it impossible a human could be ever fail to value its own life?
I certainly think humans have suicided before, due to doing just that. I've gone through periods of depression myself, and nearly suicided. My life appeared to me, at the time, to be terribly unappealing. Even though the attempt failed, my feelings of upset were at the pain I nearly caused to my family, not at losing something valuable.
So, I suggest you are wrong at that part at the very least.
Read one of my previous posts. I'm not pretending to say that suicide does not exist. I'm saying that nobody will kill himself "just because he/she wants". They can kill himself, but they always have an excuse for it.
My point is that in the universe, life is a big exception, not the rule. It needs very special condicions to exist, and because of that, life has itself as an objectively defined universal moral value.
You probably did not value your life. I doubt you did not value all sorts of life. Otherwise, it would be indiferent for you to kill yourself, a tree or anybody else walking in the street. You valued life, but you did not value YOUR SPECIFIC LIVING CONDITIONS.Dragar said:My excuse for trying was that I no longer valued living.
That was not the point. I tried to say that there are an objectively defined "instinct" in every form of living being that drives them to preserve not just their life, but also to value life in general as something very special. This "instinct" exists objectively in the universe. It's a force that says "LIFE WANTS LIFE".Because it's rare, it's valuable?
While I agree that's how we determine, a lot of the time, what is valuable and what is not, it is still subjective and not at all universal. There are likely some extremely rare diseases out there - they're not always valuable.
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