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ramettechick0909

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Hi, I used to cut to get attention. I quit doing that about 6 months ago. Yesterday I listen to rock and it triggered me off. Today I want to listen to rock and cut. I don't wnat to becaus eit will hurt my mom and dad. I feel like poeple who are into cutting and depressing stuff that they are always occupied. I am so bored all the time that maybe it will occupy me.
 

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Find something else to occupy yourself. You DO NOT want to be occupied with cutting and trying to hide it, or constantly worrying about what people think about you because of the scars, if they're visible. You DO NOT want to go through the pain of hurting others and feeling as though you can't help it.

Please stay away from cutting. I don't want to see you get back into it. Find other things to occupy you. I know you must have hobbies. If not, get involved in something. Clubs at school ... learn how to knit or draw or cross-stitch. Get involved in a good book.

Identify what triggers you and stay away from it.
 
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Soulwings said:
Find something else to occupy yourself. You DO NOT want to be occupied with cutting and trying to hide it, or constantly worrying about what people think about you because of the scars, if they're visible. You DO NOT want to go through the pain of hurting others and feeling as though you can't help it.

Please stay away from cutting. I don't want to see you get back into it. Find other things to occupy you. I know you must have hobbies. If not, get involved in something. Clubs at school ... learn how to knit or draw or cross-stitch. Get involved in a good book.

Identify what triggers you and stay away from it.

i completely agree. If rock music triggers you, try not listening to it and listen to other type of music(Christian Rock is really good).
As soulwings said, go do things that will positively effect you...like joining a group or get into a relaxing and fun hobby.
I shall pray for you..That you get away from cutting.

+God Bless+
 
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Just my opinion but I don't think anyone cuts just for attention. They also need some sort of release from some sort of emotional something. Sounds like not only are you bored but you are lonely too. Perhaps you can find something you might enjoy poetry, reading, a sport, computer game or something like that as a distraction. What about youth group at a church or something like that to help build relationships, have fun things to do, and learn more about God/worship God? Do you have anthing like that to help you feel connected to others?
 
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RChick - WOW!! Sounds a lot like me these days. It's been 175 days for me, and I was doing really well and then something triggered it about a month ago and ever since I want to do it. Mostly just for attention. Like, I want to see if people would notice. I know they love me. I know they care, but I want to see if they'd notice the new cuts.

My small group leader and I met today about other stuff and this came up. She pointed out that I am placing my desire for people to notice me above my desire for God. And, I know for a FACT that God is so much more satisfying, lasting, and loving then a razor.

I am in here with you sister! Right now I am sooo temtped, so I am here reading and hoping to encourage someone else. :)
 
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