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I am a Christian and want to date a Mormon...should I do it?

Catherineanne

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That depends. Do you see it turning into a long term relationship, or just a few dates?

If it is going to be serious then at some point there will have to be a discussion about faith. If it just develops into friendship then that would be less important. I suppose the first question would be, if it became serious would you consider becoming a Mormon, and/or would he consider joining your church. If neither of you would consider this, then there may not be anywhere for the relationship to go.
 
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I'm going to second what Catherine said: if you're just going to hang out, go to a few movies, and be friends, not a problem.

If you're at the age where you're going to seriously date a person and/or consider marriage, then things should be approached carefully for both your sakes.
 
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I also second Catherine in this. I watched my sister go through 7 years of a horrible mess with an atheist. I realize Mormons are not atheists, but their faith is VERY different from that of a Christian. As friends it's not a problem. But when you walk with the Lord, and see Him as Your first love, dating someone seriously who has an entirely different view of who He is, and the world in general, it's nearly impossible to be on the same page.

Ultimately scripture tells us it's impossible to serve two masters. Wives are called to submit to our husbands, so that together we serve the same Lord. How can you submit to a husband serving a different god (or idea of God) and still follow the Lord?

It does get tricky when it comes to Mormonism because it so closely resembles Christianity. If you are serious about this person, my recommendation would be to study Mormonism closely, and grill him on his views as well. See just how different it is from your faith, so that you'll know exactly what that relationship will be like down the line.

Though I never dated a Mormon, I have been very close with some (one pursued me at one point). They are great people, I totally understand the desire to get closer! Pray for wisdom, discernment, and be slow to act. I'm 25, so I'm not exactly an older, wiser person ;-) I still hope I can encourage and provide some insight!
 
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When I was 27 I met my dream woman. She was beautiful, she was smart, we had insane chemistry from the get go, but then on our 3rd date I discovered that she was a hard core Jehovah Witness.

And I was sad, because I knew we were not meant to be. Her faith and beliefs were just flat out not compatible with my Christian Baptist upbringing. So, before the relationship could gain further ground I ended it.

There are certain faiths and religions and beliefs that simply aren't compatible with my Christian faith. And if they aren't compatible, then there just is no point moving forward.
 
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Dont do it. You can be acquaintances but nothing more...its a messed up religion. Tell him the gospel and dont date him.

My neighbours are mormon. You also might to read some books written by former mormons who came to know the Lord.
 
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