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Husbands feel "entitled" to wife's body
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<blockquote data-quote="Basil the Great" data-source="post: 73392545" data-attributes="member: 240502"><p>Well.... I must say that this is one of the most interesting threads that I have seen in my years on Christian Forums. As far as dirty jokes, they have never been my cup of tea. Regarding the groping, I am not sure what to say. I guess that it is a matter of degree. One would hope that a husband and wife could come to a mutually agreeable position of things like this, but such is not always possible. Having never been married, it is hard for me to fully assess the situation. However, I spent most of my long career in government interviewing women who were divorced or separated or had children out of wedlock. Hence, I have heard many different things from women, though this particular complaint is one that I do not recall. I guess I am most concerned as to whether his constant groping is possibly an indication of worse things to come. Hopefully this will not be the case. I am referring here to the potential for verbal and even physical abuse.</p><p></p><p>Sadly, you are in a touchy situation. Many wives would probably gladly trade places with you, especially those where groping and sex is infrequent. Still, your comfort zone is not to be totally ignored by a loving husband. As is so often the case in life, there is no easy answer to the problem that you face. If you are unable to eventually resolve the situation to a level that you can live with, then maybe see if the two of you will go for marriage counseling, though I have never been a huge fan of such.</p><p></p><p>................ OK, I just read your post about him being rude to your family and friends. It sounds to me like he is at least showing the potential to being a controlling husband, if he is not there already.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Basil the Great, post: 73392545, member: 240502"] Well.... I must say that this is one of the most interesting threads that I have seen in my years on Christian Forums. As far as dirty jokes, they have never been my cup of tea. Regarding the groping, I am not sure what to say. I guess that it is a matter of degree. One would hope that a husband and wife could come to a mutually agreeable position of things like this, but such is not always possible. Having never been married, it is hard for me to fully assess the situation. However, I spent most of my long career in government interviewing women who were divorced or separated or had children out of wedlock. Hence, I have heard many different things from women, though this particular complaint is one that I do not recall. I guess I am most concerned as to whether his constant groping is possibly an indication of worse things to come. Hopefully this will not be the case. I am referring here to the potential for verbal and even physical abuse. Sadly, you are in a touchy situation. Many wives would probably gladly trade places with you, especially those where groping and sex is infrequent. Still, your comfort zone is not to be totally ignored by a loving husband. As is so often the case in life, there is no easy answer to the problem that you face. If you are unable to eventually resolve the situation to a level that you can live with, then maybe see if the two of you will go for marriage counseling, though I have never been a huge fan of such. ................ OK, I just read your post about him being rude to your family and friends. It sounds to me like he is at least showing the potential to being a controlling husband, if he is not there already. [/QUOTE]
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