After being sexually assualted, how can you heal yourself, and feel right before god?
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How to heal
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Jesus is the healer, not you.
You need someone with the experience and time to teach you how to receive Jesus' transformation.
John
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You need someone with the experience and time to teach you how to receive Jesus' transformation.
John
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The first thing is, when you are a victim, God does not judge you for what somebody else has done. You are right with God already because your sins will make you unclean, not the sins of others.
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The shame and the guilt you feel is not warranted. IT does NOT belong to you and it simply is not yours to carry.
You look your guilt and blame in the old eye and tell it
"I recognize you devil, first you rape me then want ME to carry the load of guilt and shame? I will not carry your dirt any more. I was bought by a price!
I am owned by Jesus my Lord and Savior . Guilt and shame you have no place with me. I will not wear you, accept you or take you into my soul. I did nothing wrong. I did NOTHING wrong. I claim my power back in the name of Jesus Christ. I wash away the dirt of the past, for which I am not responsible and I wear it NO more. I am a beautiful daughter of God! God loves me, I am worthy of love, health, stability and peace and I claim these things -- in Jesus name....AMEN!
You look your guilt and blame in the old eye and tell it
"I recognize you devil, first you rape me then want ME to carry the load of guilt and shame? I will not carry your dirt any more. I was bought by a price!
I am owned by Jesus my Lord and Savior . Guilt and shame you have no place with me. I will not wear you, accept you or take you into my soul. I did nothing wrong. I did NOTHING wrong. I claim my power back in the name of Jesus Christ. I wash away the dirt of the past, for which I am not responsible and I wear it NO more. I am a beautiful daughter of God! God loves me, I am worthy of love, health, stability and peace and I claim these things -- in Jesus name....AMEN!
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You cannot blame yourself for another person's actions. You are the victim here. God can and will heal you. I also think a counselor is a great start. My daughter went through being molested, and she felt it was her fault for a while. In fact, she would no longer wear her promise ring. It is a ring a girl wears that looks like a wedding band and says True Love Waits, its a promise to God to remain pure until your wedding night when the ring is taken off and replaced with your wedding band. My daughter saw a pastoral counselor who really helped her and read some great books. I have a thread in here called molested that tells my story and her story. Perhaps it may help you.
Lord, I pray for this young girl. Father she has been a vicitim of a horrible crime. Lord comfort her. Father let her see herself through your eyes. Give her strength to stand up the the wrong she has endured, give her healing Lord. Father surround her with your love and strength.
In Jesus Name
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Lord, I pray for this young girl. Father she has been a vicitim of a horrible crime. Lord comfort her. Father let her see herself through your eyes. Give her strength to stand up the the wrong she has endured, give her healing Lord. Father surround her with your love and strength.
In Jesus Name
Amen
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