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Unfortunately, we have little control over what others think, say or do. I remember something said by Reginald Denny, the truck driver who's attack was caught on camera during the Rodney King Riots in LA. From his hospital bed he said. 'It stops here.' That is pretty much all one can do. It stops here.
 
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Somebody is not very bright, Is what I was saying.May be I should leave you to celebrate "screw the w....." in your own way.

You are entitled to determining who is bright and who is not, based on your personal perceptions and needs.

I was asking for examples of what you claimed and I would conclude from your responses, none is to be expected?
 
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You are entitled to determining who is bright and who is not, based on your personal perceptions and needs.

I was asking for examples of what you claimed and I would conclude from your responses, none is to be expected?

I don't feel entitled to anything.I happened to earn my way in almost everything.

About that brightness thing is self evident from the following posts.

rationalt said:
Observation. And some third party double blind studies .
bhsmte said:
Examples?
 
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A repost of mine from another thread: The thing about racism is that sometimes people become that way after experiencing negative things of a racist nature directed at them from other people. Racism is ugly and vicious because it is a cycle that can affect anyone, anywhere, of any race- and it won't stop until people (even those who've been done wrong/victims of it) decide to end that cycle on their end as well. If you think racism isn't an EVERYBODY problem and only something white people need to deal with on their end, the problem will never be solved, and that's a fact.
 
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I don't feel entitled to anything.I happened to earn my way in almost everything.

About that brightness thing is self evident from the following posts.

One thing for sure is self evident, someone not willing to support their own claim.
 
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Agree.

As long as the human mind works the way it does, there will always be some form of racism.

The level or racism is what changes, and is evidenced by how it has approved for blacks in the last several decades. With 300+ million people, there is no way to prevent all from being racist.

The thing that bothers me the most today, is when racism is claimed, when no evidence for racism exists. IMO, this inhibits any further improvement on the situation.
 
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Speak for yourself. Most of America has been over it for 50 years.

Your proof, is that there are exceptions. Our proof, is that we love and idealize people of all races, and have lived this way long enough not to get drug back into it by the few or by guilt.
 
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Race relations seemed better before this administration. The constant harping on race by the race baiters today only inflames extraordinary racism.
 
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As seen through the eyes of the majority. Pretty easy to claim society is "over racism" when you've never been, nor likely ever will be, affected directly by racism.
 
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As seen through the eyes of the majority. Pretty easy to claim society is "over racism" when you've never been, nor likely ever will be, affected directly by racism.
While I don't agree with the post you're responding to, I do have to say that I have witnessed scenarios in which a minority automatically assumed someone was being racist against them, whereas witnesses to said scenario saw other, more likely possibilities over racism. Sometimes, people see what they want to see, and our perceptions drive a lot of our worldview (be they right or wrong).
 
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On the level of ordinary racism, where someone prefers to personally associate with certain races: this is normal and nothing is wrong with this. We all possess preferences in every area of our lives.

On the level of extraordinary racism, where someone harms another based on their race: this is abnormal and wrong, and such actions would be prosecuted under normal injury law.
 
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There is a middle area, though, that can be just as oppressive as the cross burning days of old. I don't consider spending more time predominantly with people of your own race inherently racist. It may just your area isn't particularly diverse in the first place, or that you find you don't have common interests with people and they just happen to be people of color. But it doesn't necessarily need to swing to the extreme end of the spectrum and involve a hate crime in order to be racist. There is, still, institutionalized racism at work in America. It's just not as overt as it used to be.
 
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As seen through the eyes of the majority. Pretty easy to claim society is "over racism" when you've never been, nor likely ever will be, affected directly by racism.
I have. I got over it. (Pretty easy to guess and be wrong) I don't suppose you would like to apologize?
 
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