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How to become a Calvinist in 5 easy steps

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You could, but could not say "yes" or "no". Does it have to be a problem? No! Can it be a problem? Most certainly.
 
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Speaking of self-delusion...have you ever run across this teaching of Calvin?:
(I don't know how any Calvinist can be secure in their salvation).


there are two species of calling: for there is an universal call, by which God, through the external preaching of the word, invites all men alike, even those for whom he designs the call to be a savor of death, and the ground of a severer condemnation. Besides this there is a special call which, for the most part, God bestows on believers only, when by the internal illumination of the Spirit he causes the word preached to take deep root in their hearts. Sometimes, however, he communicates it also to those whom he enlightens only for a time, and whom afterwards, in just punishment for their ingratitude, he abandons and smites with greater blindness.

Source:
Calvin's Institutes
Book 3
Chapter 24
Paragraph 8
 
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The bible is our authority.
But there are other writings that could clear all this up.
But, unfortunately, not many Christians like to study Christian history...
so on we go.
 
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Continually, I see this, that the mind of self-determination considers how everything affects the person, and everything relates to what the person can do —is he secure?, what he decides, how he accomplishes what God has for him to do, what does God think of him?, does he measure up?, what is his heart after?, etc.

But Calvin wants to talk about what God is doing.
 
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Everything does affect the person.

The bible is about the relationship between God and man.

Relationship.

We're not His playthings.
 
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I wonder why you see this continually.
Maybe because it's true.
 
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Everything does affect the person.

The bible is about the relationship between God and man.

Relationship.

We're not His playthings.
Did you find me implying we're his playthings?
 
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I wonder why you see this continually.
Maybe because it's true.
True that I see it? Or true that Calvin wants to talk about what God is doing, and the self-determining want to talk about what man can do? Both?
 
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True that I see it? Or true that Calvin wants to talk about what God is doing, and the self-determining want to talk about what man can do? Both?
We can do nothing apart from the Holy Spirit.
 
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True that I see it? Or true that Calvin wants to talk about what God is doing, and the self-determining want to talk about what man can do? Both?
I meant what posters tell you.
If so many told me I was wrong,
I'd sit up and take notice.
But we all think we're right.
 
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I meant what posters tell you.
If so many told me I was wrong,
I'd sit up and take notice.
But we all think we're right.
How many is that? (Not that numbers have any relevance to the matter, but...)
 
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I meant what posters tell you.
If so many told me I was wrong,
I'd sit up and take notice.
But we all think we're right.
How many is that? (Not that numbers have any relevance to the matter, but...)

On this forum posters tell me all the time I'm wrong. There seems to be all kinds of Christians on this ship.
 
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Thanks for the kind words Mark - I'm aiming to more properly reply to your comments here, but as a brief aside I do note:
  1. How vociferous many of these responses in this thread are.
  2. The gross and liberal usage of straw-men against anything resembling a Reformed or Calvinist position.
  3. A lack of exegesis in these responses, nor traction with most counter-questions asked.
  4. That given these points, I'm curious what's the motivation and psychology behind them. I don't seem to recall any contra-"How do Arminians explain X" posts droning on into nearly 100 pages. Nor any spat-out disparagement of the Arminian position.
Maybe it's just me
 
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If God does not love everyone, (and I'm not denying that in some form God does love everyone, but that's beside the point), there is nothing to be gained by fooling all in order that the elect might believe.

somehow I keep running into this mindset that we must sell the Gospel

Agreed. I'm all for careful analysis (at our creaturely-level) that might shed light on how we are preaching the Gospel, the uptake rate of the curious/converts, etc. This to me sounds like prudent, using-our-noggins wisdom that would please God. But of course I know that at the Divine-Plan level we're simply fulfilling our part of the dance, and it's in God's hands how the seeds might scatter and grow days, maybe years beyond the initial sharing.

It's better to say, "Listen to what God says", than to say, "God is a sweet old man who wants you so badly that he died for you, but it's up to you!"

I know that you're not necessarily putting it in terms of "hard-truth" versus "warm and fuzzy", but to me I'm not even sure this dichotomy exists: "God has created you and showered you with his Providence. The plan all along was for you to come to this truth and the sacrifice of his Son for your sins. If you simply believe then you gain an afterlife of eternal union with God in the New Earth".

If I was street-corner preaching to a crowd of 100, I would not be thinking "Hmm... I hope maybe there's 3 or 4 elect out there." I would play my part, hoping that the script called for all 100 to be born again.

I want GOD to change a heart; the intellect and emotions can't do it.

I would say that the intellect and emotions might be PART of the heart change - but still Divinely Planned. In my own case, I came to Jesus through Chinese philosophy and Taoism. Lots of reading, slowly getting exposure to Piper, Sproul, MacArthur, et al. It was slow motion, through a ton of books and lectures - and of course not one subatomic particle during the whole process not out of God's hand.

What do these who water down the Gospel say, when the agnostic says, "If God loves me, then why was I abused?"? "Well, God didn't really mean for you to be abused, but, see, we have freewill."

Right. Is a reality where God's subject to the free will intentions of 8 billion people any consolation?

There is no useless evangelism, but if anything ever came close to it, it would be through the preaching of a 'winsome' gospel that ignores the truth.

Or at least a strange path: converted into Arminianism, and either graced with a deeper-understanding of God's nature or at least enough to meet God's approval at Judgement. To me it all falls under the category of "I trust God has planned the judgement of each and every elect to the glory of his Plan." I'm just here to serve happily and (ideally ) without judgement" whatever God has decreed for me.
 
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Please. When you define God as the evil monster of Calvinism, expect some backlash.
 
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Wow.
All I do is explain scripture .
I find, instead, that mine is ignored and instead long posts about what the poster believes follow.

Then I get tired of it all.
I don't mean you.
 
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