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How the prostitute uses her tongue to entice the man (Part 2):
● "And behold, a woman comes to meet him, dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart." (Proverbs 07:10).
● "So she seizes him and kisses him and with a brazen face she says to him: “Therefore I have come out to meet you, to seek your presence earnestly, and I have found you."" (Proverbs 7:13,15).
Second thing: her apparently interest in the man.
If you think on getting married, don't be cheated by the struggle of the person to try to enthrall you. In the Holy Scripture there is the mope history of Tamar:
● "Now it was after this that Absalom the son of David had a beautiful sister whose name was Tamar, and Amnon the son of David loved her. Amnon was so frustrated because of his sister Tamar that he made himself ill, for she was a virgin, and it seemed hard to Amnon to do anything to her." (2 Samuel 13:1-2)
At first, everything looked to indicate that Amnon loved Tamar. He got sick for her.
Nevertheless, take a look in what took place after he violate Tamar and lay with her:
● "Then Amnon hated her with a very great hatred; for the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. And Amnon said to her, “Get up, go away!” But she said to him, “No, because this wrong in sending me away is greater than the other that you have done to me!” Yet he would not listen to her. Then he called his young man who attended him and said, “Now throw this woman out of my presence, and lock the door behind her.” (2 Samuel 13:15-17).
The true, strong and perennial union is that wherein Jesus the center of the marriage. That is to say, a single person only ought to get marriage when they see that Jesus and His gift in the life of the future spouse are exactly what they need to glorify Christ fulfilling His purport for their life.
If the interest of the person is in you (or vice-versa), certainly this marriage will be thwarted. When you err or your forces decay (and it will come about because all of us are flimsy and defective) the discussions, squabbles and wrangles will set out.
Not to mention that, when the person to frustrate your expectance, you will end up charging and accusing the person for the times that you helped.
The truth is this:
● "What is man that You take thought of him, And the son of man that You care for him? " (Psalm 8:4).
● "O Lord, what is man, that You take knowledge of him? Or the son of man, that You think of him?" (Psalm 144:3).
● “Thus saith the LORD; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from the LORD.” (Jer 17:5).
So, don't dare to take on the following responsibility: to correspond to what someone expect from you. Take on yourself the yoke of Jesus (Matthew 11:28-30) and, certainly, at the right moment, He will send to you the one who will help you to carry this yoke (meditate on Genesis 2:24).
Have a lovely week mulling over this and pass this ahead. After all, if you aren't single, certainly you know someone single that is in love for somebody else and, perhaps, about to damage all their life thinking that their qualities are sufficient to keep the home.
It is good to recalling that only the threefold cord don't quickly break (Ecc 4.12), where the first fold is the Holy Spirit.
● "And behold, a woman comes to meet him, dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart." (Proverbs 07:10).
● "So she seizes him and kisses him and with a brazen face she says to him: “Therefore I have come out to meet you, to seek your presence earnestly, and I have found you."" (Proverbs 7:13,15).
Second thing: her apparently interest in the man.
If you think on getting married, don't be cheated by the struggle of the person to try to enthrall you. In the Holy Scripture there is the mope history of Tamar:
● "Now it was after this that Absalom the son of David had a beautiful sister whose name was Tamar, and Amnon the son of David loved her. Amnon was so frustrated because of his sister Tamar that he made himself ill, for she was a virgin, and it seemed hard to Amnon to do anything to her." (2 Samuel 13:1-2)
At first, everything looked to indicate that Amnon loved Tamar. He got sick for her.
Nevertheless, take a look in what took place after he violate Tamar and lay with her:
● "Then Amnon hated her with a very great hatred; for the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. And Amnon said to her, “Get up, go away!” But she said to him, “No, because this wrong in sending me away is greater than the other that you have done to me!” Yet he would not listen to her. Then he called his young man who attended him and said, “Now throw this woman out of my presence, and lock the door behind her.” (2 Samuel 13:15-17).
The true, strong and perennial union is that wherein Jesus the center of the marriage. That is to say, a single person only ought to get marriage when they see that Jesus and His gift in the life of the future spouse are exactly what they need to glorify Christ fulfilling His purport for their life.
If the interest of the person is in you (or vice-versa), certainly this marriage will be thwarted. When you err or your forces decay (and it will come about because all of us are flimsy and defective) the discussions, squabbles and wrangles will set out.
Not to mention that, when the person to frustrate your expectance, you will end up charging and accusing the person for the times that you helped.
The truth is this:
● "What is man that You take thought of him, And the son of man that You care for him? " (Psalm 8:4).
● "O Lord, what is man, that You take knowledge of him? Or the son of man, that You think of him?" (Psalm 144:3).
● “Thus saith the LORD; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from the LORD.” (Jer 17:5).
So, don't dare to take on the following responsibility: to correspond to what someone expect from you. Take on yourself the yoke of Jesus (Matthew 11:28-30) and, certainly, at the right moment, He will send to you the one who will help you to carry this yoke (meditate on Genesis 2:24).
Have a lovely week mulling over this and pass this ahead. After all, if you aren't single, certainly you know someone single that is in love for somebody else and, perhaps, about to damage all their life thinking that their qualities are sufficient to keep the home.
It is good to recalling that only the threefold cord don't quickly break (Ecc 4.12), where the first fold is the Holy Spirit.
