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How should i approach a new interest?

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So at Bible talk the other day i met a wonderful girl. I was wondering what would be the best way i should approach her. I havent tried to approach a Christian girl before with more then just friendship. Should i be her friend first and then find out how she feels about relationships? or just let her know that im interested in her from the get go? i just wanted some suggestions. thanks.
 

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Definitely friendship first - you need to find out more about her interests, hobbies...stuff like that, before you go too far and possibly negate any chance you might have of even being friends with her. For sure, compliment her on what you can see in her from first impressions, but to take it at a slow but steady pace enables you to see whether she is single or not, and establish in a more relaxed manner whether you and her could possibly be more than friends in the future.
 
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Yeah i think i should start with the friend thing first. Because even if it doesnt work out at least ill have another buddy. but sometimes it gets so far into the friendship you cant even break out of that roll. but its a risk im more then willing to take.
 
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I find myself in a similar situation.I haven't met a girl but Ifeel like I'm afraid to get into a relationship .I know a lot of girls and I sometimes think some of them might be good for me .I don't wanna rush things though sometimes I would like to have a girlfriend .So for now I decided to pray to God to help me to do His will in this ,because I know He has prepared something special for me .
 
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