How often...

[loved]

...do you see your SO a week ????

Is this enough?

Is it not enough???

What are difficult factors??

 

[AngylBelle]

...do you see your SO a week ????

Is this enough?

Is it not enough???

What are difficult factors??

Every day when I am in town. I travel a lot out of state/country and am often times gone months at a time, so when we are in the same area, we make a special effort to see one another as much as possible. We both would like to see each other more often but understand that with marriage ahead, we will have plenty of time to "need space" and "get sick of each other" then... .

 

[JustLiz87]

I go away to school, so I see my boyfriend almost every weekend. We spend most of Saturday and Sunday together. We go to church together, which is really awesome. My bf just bought a house, so he will be spending all summer building the addition he wants and other things. So I won't see him as often this summer except when I decide to bring him dinner when he is working and other things. It's hard to go for more than a week at a time not seeing him b/c I am so used to seeing him every week. But, he is optimistic and says that he knows we will see each other soon so it's okay and not to worry about it.

 

[gizmo03]

3 times a week at church, but tonight when he told me he missed me this morning when he wasn't at church and we just may have to do something to make up for it, which is going to make it nice now with me switching jobs.

 

[Miss_Behave]

My FH lives in a completely separate country to mine.
Distance is HARD.
But we manage, because we love eachother. And we'll be together in 9 weeks, yeah baby. He's moving back to my country with me.

 

[unjustwar]

every day, school, track, afterschool, on weekends, sometimes its too much because I want my space. Thats my only complaint

 

[lanajean1126]

Everyday. School, Church, weekends. We are best friends so we do everything together. I agree that space is an issue and sometimes it gets too much but I love sharing everything together. This summer I am going away to camp all summer so this will be a huge challenge. Then I'm going an hour away to college which will also be a major change. I know that God will help us make it through.

 

[VanillaRose]

We see each other A LOT! On one hand we do get a lil tired of each other sometimes but at the same time we want to share everything! Just today we decided we're gonna take a couple days to do our own thing. And we totally understand when one of us asks for this. He has been unemployed and I'm unable to work at the moment so we have a lot of free time. But (praise the Lord!) He got a job this week!!! So we will be seeing less of each other but it's probably for the best and something that is definetly needed!

 

[Ceris]

We both go to different schools, and before I had a car, it would be every weekend or every 2 weeks, depending upon the situation. Now that I have a car, she's an hour drive away rather than 2.5 by bus. So I wind up seeing her (normally) 3 days out of the week. Not very fun, but we're both really busy with classes. I wish I could spend more time with her, but the longest we've ever been together for a single period of time is 5 days. And then this summer she's going to be a 5 hour drive away.

 

[FaithfulServant]

We both go to the same University and live in the same town, so we usually see each other everyday, even if only for 30 minutes. He goes home a lot of weekends, and we don't see each other on vacation times like Thanksgiving, Christmas, Spring Break, and Summer.

Summer is the only hard time, since its for a 3-4 month period.

 

[Hope_0004]

We see each other probably 4-5 days out of the week. I don't know if it's too much for him. It's not "too much" for me, but it can get a little bland sometimes. Watching movies can get kind of boring, but we are getting really close and it's llike hanging out with a friend as much as a boyfriend. But I like to have my few nights alone too, or my house becomes a wreck!

 

[PurpleBunny]

When we started dating, we saw each other every 3-4 weeks for a weekend. Over time that turned into every other weekend, with some longer trips when we were able. As the wedding has gotten nearer, we started seeing each other every weekend and taking a lot of trips to the city we're moving to so we could arrange his school and our housing, etc.

Now he's moved there and after his next visit (tomorrow), I won't see him again until 4 weeks before the wedding

 

[trust_faith]

I really envy those that can see bf everyday or at least 3 times per week.
My ex... only sees me once in 2 mths and sms me only 2-3 times per week. He wants a independent gf. That's what he says to me. He says that I can do it. But I prove him wrong. cos I leave him in the end. I hope what I do is correct. cos I think that meeting so few times, Making me very tired about this relationship.

 

[MentalSoliloquy]

Welp...I'm in a ldr...so I see mine 1-2 times a year (we live in different countries)...we speak on the phone everyday though

 

[Wakeup2god]

I see my darling Tesday evnings, Thursday evenings, sometimes Friday evening at church, always on a Saturday for most of the afternoon and sometimes Sunday afternoons for an hour or two. Nowhere near enough though.

Difficult factors are work, children (we both have our own), and avoiding temptation!

 

[...butterfly...]

...do you see your SO a week ????

Is this enough?

Is it not enough???

What are difficult factors??

I see my bf probably about 3-4 times a week.
I think thats enough time...we both need our space too.
The difficult factors are that he is going away for the summer and I dont have my own car to go see him when I'm available.