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How does one get "born-again"?

How is one "born again"?

  • Being born again is something that just happens when you have faith.

  • Being born again is something God does in response to your faith.

  • Being born again is something God does, without any help from you.

  • Being born again is something that occurs as a result of baptism.


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What do the following verses tell us about being "born again"?
John 1:12-13 - But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.

John 3:3 Jesus answered and said to him, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God."

John 3:7-8
"Do not be amazed that I said to you, 'You must be born again.' The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit."

1 Peter 1:3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to His great mercy has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,

1 Peter 1:23 for you have been born again not of seed which is perishable but imperishable, that is, through the living and enduring word of God.
Is being "born again" the same as being "made alive"?

Eph 2:5 even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved),

Col 2:13 When you were dead in your transgressions and the uncircumcision of your flesh, He made you alive together with Him, having forgiven us all our transgressions,
 

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The verses above are righteous. Those from John tell us what we must do, i.e., be born again. But why stop after John 3:8? Jesus goes on to instruct us in how we are born again (the only way, I might add). He tells us:

"9. Nicodemus answered and said unto him, How can these things be? 10. Jesus answered and said unto him, Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things? 11. Verily, verily, I say unto thee, We speak that we do know, and testify that we have seen; and ye receive not our witness."

Nicodemus had heard Jesus speak, and witnessed, or at least heard about, the miracles that He did, but still did not believe. So Jesus gives him an important lesson"

"12. If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not, how shall ye believe, if I tell you of heavenly things? 13. And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, even the Son of man which is in heaven. 14. And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: 15. That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life."

Jesus uses metaphoric speech in the third person to explain what God has done, sending His Son (Son of man) down from Heaven. Then, in verse 15, Jesus explains why the Son has been sent, which I will paraphrase: Anyone who believes in Jesus (as that Son of God after He has been crucified {lifted up in humiliation for all to see} and God has resurrected Him from the dead) should not perish, but (instead) have eternal life.

Then Jesus restates that exact same premise in what I and many others consider to be the most beautiful verse in all of Scripture:

"16. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."

There is it! That is how any person can be born again in the Spirit to enjoy eternal life with God our Father. Any person who believes in Jesus as the Son of God, resurrected from the dead by Almighty God in total victory over the grave, is born again in the Holy Spirit, and that person will receive God's grace to eternal life.

Belief is the key to salvation. The simple belief as a child that Jesus is the resurrected Son of God is all that is required by God.

Man, in his infinite stupidy and arrogance, as decided that simple belief cannot possibly be all that is required for something as wonderful as eternal salvation. Surely God requires more than just simple belief in His Son, and Jesus simply did not state all of the truth in John 3:16. So man has added all sorts of additional requirements for finding salvation. Some men have even gone so far as to claim that no one can possibly know if he or she really has salvation until after they die. Jesus assures us we are saved if we believe, and man says no way.

Personally, I will believe Jesus, and I will believe in Jesus as well.

Matthan <J><
 
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"How does one get born again?"

Perhaps that is the wrong question...in the last century we have made salvation a very self centered thing (I want to get something...joy, peace, comfort, power, salvation). If instead we focused on how we could glorify God I think perhaps we wouldn't need to answer that question.

Just a thought...I could expand. Don't mean to be argumentative but i'm very concerned with the humanistic nature of contemporary models of salvation.

In any case, in answer to your question: When am i born again? When Jesus is Lord of my life.
 
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Matthan said:
The verses above are righteous. Those from John tell us what we must do, i.e., be born again. But why stop after John 3:8? Jesus goes on to instruct us in how we are born again (the only way, I might add). He tells us:

Actually, and this is my point, being "born again" is not something we get in response for something we do. As Christ said, one who is not born again cannot even see the kingdom of God, much less have faith in it. As Paul writes:
1Co 2:14 But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually appraised.

Before one can accept the "things of the Spirit" something supernatural has to happen.

Nicodemus had heard Jesus speak, and witnessed, or at least heard about, the miracles that He did, but still did not believe.

And why is that? Surely Nicodemus heard as much, if not more, than even you or I. Here he sits in the presence of Christ and yet does not believe. It is exactly as Christ said, "one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God." Nicodemus had not yet been born-again, and Christ wasn't telling him what to do to get born again, but how one is born again by the Spirit (as I quoted, John 1:12-13). Also, the following verses after John 2:3 show that Nicodemus had a natural mindset, wondering if one needed to climb back into the womb...

Like the men of John 6 who ask "What shall we do, so that we may work the works of God?"" Christ's response is not a list of things to do, but instead:
John 6:29 Jesus answered and said to them, "This is the work of God, that you believe in Him whom He has sent."
This is not something man can do, it is God's work to cause man to believe in the Son.

So Jesus gives him an important lesson""12. If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not, how shall ye believe, if I tell you of heavenly things? ...


My point exactly, Nicodemus cannot understand Spiritual things, because he does not yet have a mind set on the Spirit (Rom 8:7-9).

13. And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, even the Son of man which is in heaven. 14. And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: 15. That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life."
Jesus uses metaphoric speech in the third person to explain what God has done, sending His Son (Son of man) down from Heaven. Then, in verse 15, Jesus explains why the Son has been sent, which I will paraphrase: Anyone who believes in Jesus (as that Son of God after He has been crucified {lifted up in humiliation for all to see} and God has resurrected Him from the dead) should not perish, but (instead) have eternal life.

There is, in those verses, no discussion of how one gets born again. In fact Christ explains that "no man hat ascended up to heaven", no man can get to heaven by deed. But by looking to the Son of man one will have eternal life, salvation from the fatal disease of death.

But is being "born again" synonymous with "eternal life", or is it a part of the equation.
Then Jesus restates that exact same premise in what I and many others consider to be the most beautiful verse in all of Scripture:

"16. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."

And yet our problem remains... how does one get from being in Nicodemus' position of unbelief to belief? Is it something they conjure up themselves?

Or is it, as Christ said in John 6, "the work of God..."?

See we've skipped over some difficult verses:
Joh 3:5-6
Jesus answered, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
One must FIRST be born of the Spirit before they can enter the kingdom of God... Being born of the Spirit is not something man does.
John 1:13 who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.
Nor is it something God does in response to some good deed, or thought of man... it is not of man's decision (not of the will of the flesh... nor the will of man). It is God's decision, God's work.

There is it! That is how any person can be born again in the Spirit to enjoy eternal life with God our Father. Any person who believes in Jesus as the Son of God, resurrected from the dead by Almighty God in total victory over the grave, is born again in the Holy Spirit, and that person will receive God's grace to eternal life.

So what you're saying is that a person who does something gets grace? So grace is something we get in return for something we do?

Doesn't that change the definition of grace?

Belief is the key to salvation. The simple belief as a child that Jesus is the resurrected Son of God is all that is required by God.

But where did this belief come from? What made you believe but others not believe? Were you better? More spiritually minded?

Man, in his infinite stupidy and arrogance, as decided that simple belief cannot possibly be all that is required for something as wonderful as eternal salvation. Surely God requires more than just simple belief in His Son, and Jesus simply did not state all of the truth in John 3:16.

Faith is not "simple belief". One can believe that a seat belt will hold them and yet not trust that seat belt to do so. As Scripture states "the demons believe...". Faith has to be more than just belief... it encompasses knowledge, assent and trust. One must have knowledge of the truth, must assent to the truth and must trust the truth of Christ. The

What John 3:16 tells us is that there is salvation in Christ through faith. But one must hear the Gospel and understand it to have faith in it. But the Gospel is "spiritual things" and natural man cannot understand it. Therefore something supernatural must FIRST occur before one can even see the kingdom of God.
 
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Stefan Davidovich said:
"How does one get born again?"

Perhaps that is the wrong question...in the last century we have made salvation a very self centered thing (I want to get something...joy, peace, comfort, power, salvation).

Yeah, it's a trick question. One doesn't "get" born again, it is something that happens to them.

If instead we focused on how we could glorify God I think perhaps we wouldn't need to answer that question

Well, the problem with that, in my opinion, is that there are many (as the poll shows) that believe that being born again is something one does, or even that God does as a result of something one does.

Just a thought...I could expand. Don't mean to be argumentative but i'm very concerned with the humanistic nature of contemporary models of salvation.

Yes, indeed.

In any case, in answer to your question: When am i born again? When Jesus is Lord of my life.

Did you "make Him Lord", or was He Lord of the universe already and made you aware of that fact? ;)
 
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littleapologist said:
i didn't have anything to do with my physical birth, what makes me think that i would have anything to do with my spiritual birth?

Amen.

TITUS 3:5 He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit,

 
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Good day,

Born Again...

Eze 36:26 And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.

Eze 36:27 And I will put my Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to obey my rules.

Jer 31:33 But this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, declares the LORD: I will put my law within them, and I will write it on their hearts. And I will be their God, and they shall be my people.

God does no longer write his laws on stone , but on the hearts of flesh he puts in people, with out the change of the heart from stone that is what God does.



Rom 10:10 For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved.

A heart of stone can not believe God will only be your God after he puts in a heart of flesh. Out of the abundance of the Heart the mouth speaks,

Peace to u,

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Hello Lockheed,

It's nice to meet you...I'm pretty new around here. So, I hope you don't mind my being so bold in sharing my thoughts.

It's good to be thinking about this - I appreciate the thread and I appreciate your feedback...

I see some explanation is needed...

Well, the problem with that, in my opinion, is that there are many (as the poll shows) that believe that being born again is something one does, or even that God does as a result of something one does.

Yes, salvation is accomplished for us. You and i are helpless on our own. However, salvation is not automatic...it requires a response. The response is faith (which is also made possible by God's grace), but what is this faith?

Faith is not merely intellectual assent. James says that even the demons believe...during Jesus' lifetime anyone who met him would have believed that he was a real living person so when Jesus said, "believe in me" it may have seemed a strange thing...but Jesus was not asking people to believe that he existed he was asking them to believe that he was Lord (that He is Lord). And this faith is (and must be) an active faith.

John Stott says that this believing is a "believing into". He says, "It is an act of committal." So salvation is accomplished for me but i will receive it i must respond to it. James says, "Faith that doesn't show itself by good deeds is no faith at all - it is dead and useless." (NLT)

I'm not suggesting that you don't this - just explaining my statement.:)

You asked for further explanation...

Yes, indeed.

I believe that modern conceptions of salvation are humanistic - it's all about self; it's all about me. What do i get out of it? We come to Jesus for what we can get from Him instead of what we can give Him. Instead of it being about God's glory and pleasure it becomes about my gain and my pleasure.

I am just summarizing very briefly so please feel free to ask questions and offer feedback.

Did you "make Him Lord", or was He Lord of the universe already and made you aware of that fact?

Good point. He is Lord whether we recognize it or not. By way of explanation...

Sin was introduced when man put self on the throne. Now, of course, only God belongs on the throne but God gave humans free will and we decided that we would do what we want to do. We usurped the throne.

Through the death and resurrection of Christ we can be forgiven! Through Jesus we can have salvation (we didn't earn that) - He stands ready to be our Savior but ONLY if we'll take Him as our Lord.

Many of us want to have Him as our Savior but we're not willing to give up our rights...we're not willing to make Him our Lord. And that is a choice each of us might make. Yes He is Lord whether we accept it or not, but you and i must each choose whether or not we'll make Him Lord of our lives. And, I would argue (and firmly believe) that it is impossible to take Him as Savior if we're unwilling to take Him as Lord.

Anyway, I hope that helps. I know my first post wasn't very clear.

Thanks again Lockheed for your feedback.

Your brother in Christ,

Stephen
 
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Yes, salvation is accomplished for us. You and i are helpless on our own. However, salvation is not automatic...it requires a response. The response is faith (which is also made possible by God's grace), but what is this faith?

We're in agreement in all of this. Our response is faith, but as James White says, "Only the empty hand fits into the powerful hand of grace...", God gifts believing to those whom He regenerates through the Spirit's power.
 
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Matthan said:
. . . There is it! That is how any person can be born again in the Spirit to enjoy eternal life with God our Father. Any person who believes in Jesus as the Son of God, resurrected from the dead by Almighty God in total victory over the grave, is born again in the Holy Spirit, and that person will receive God's grace to eternal life . . . Man, in his infinite stupidy and arrogance, as decided that simple belief cannot possibly be all that is required for something as wonderful as eternal salvation. . . .
Not true, Matthan. You are making connections, through conjecture, surmising, logic, tradition, and/or whatever similar, that just isn't in the written Word as you claim. (Bold highlighting in the quote, by me.)

You have made salvation synonymous with eternal salvation. They are not the same. (Many do this same thing with generic words such as "sanctification.")

(There are many things a person needs to be saved from.)

Nowhere in God's Holy Word is "eternal salvation/eternal Life" promised to someone based solely on their being born-again. Nowhere.

Granted, the New Birth is a holy and genuine and glorious first step in the process leading to eternal Life, but "seeing" (Jn. 3:3) the Kingdom is not the same as "enter[ing]" the Kingdom (Jn. 3:5); and again, it's only through the insistences of man and his skullduggery whereby he asserts that verse 5 is speaking of only the instantaneous New Birth experience.

(All promises of eternal Life in the Holy Word, come with a qualifier, it telling us who alone qualifies. Sometimes these qualifiers are vague, them not telling us eaxactly all of what must be "believed," for instance; but other times the Word is quite specific, and in these cases the requirement is always something more than "just" the New Birth. See for you own selves, everyone--trust the potential eternity of your soul to no man's opinions, for such will not be an acceptable defense on Redemption/Judgment Day.)

The requirements for eternal Life are clearly and plainly stated in such places as 1 John 2:3-5, 1 John 4:16-18, Rev. 22:14, Luke 10:25-28, etc.; which Life requires someone to commit in the Law of the mind (Rom. 7:21-25), at whatever cost (as compared to just hardening your heart and getting by the best you are able through so-called "well-meaning" good works of, actually sinful, flesh), to receive from God whatever Graces are needed whereby they are perfected by Grace alone in the Love of the Father, which will eventually result in a life obedient to the Commandments of God.

But sorry to get off the topic of the thread (satirical), as the subject was concerning be born-again. (I also thought this was a poll until I opened the thread--but I don't understand polls I guess [not satir.].)

But the New Birth, or whatever subsequently-needed Grace is being discussed, is simply received from Heaven when it is offered by God in the spirit realm and to the inner person.

brotherjim


(Also and btw, I recall someone giving ref. of 1 Peter, which is, in the Greek, not the same wording as John 3's "born-again." Many know that John 3 should most likely, more correctly read "born from Above.")
 
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The reason for it all:

". . . and [Jesus] died for all, that those who live should live no longer for themselves, but for Him who died for them and rose again."

(And that compared to the innumerable who insist that Jesus died so that we can be born-again, keep on sinning, and still inherit eternal Life in the next age.)

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It had to do with us opening our heart to Jesus and starting a relationship with him. This is what makes you a Son of God. When you accept him to BE MASTER OF YOUR LIFE, he will come reside in your heart and body and change your life. Even if you go far far far from him, he will call you back.. you will hear a inner voice Called the Spirit of Truth (jesus' spirt) tell you to come back to the light and show you what is truth from what is false religion...
 
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benlym said:
It had to do with us opening our heart to Jesus and starting a relationship with him. This is what makes you a Son of God. When you accept him to BE MASTER OF YOUR LIFE, he will come reside in your heart and body and change your life. Even if you go far far far from him, he will call you back.. you will hear a inner voice Called the Spirit of Truth (jesus' spirt) tell you to come back to the light and show you what is truth from what is false religion...

:scratch:



God is the one who opens hearts -
Act 16:14 One who heard us was a woman named Lydia, from the city of Thyatira, a seller of purple goods, who was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to pay attention to what was said by Paul.


We are deaf to the Gospel, hostile toward God, just like the Jews were to Christ's words, until God opens our hearts -
Rom 11:8 as it is written, "God gave them a spirit of stupor, eyes that would not see and ears that would not hear, down to this very day."


Col 1:21 And you, who once were alienated and hostile in mind, doing evil deeds,

It is Christ who begins a relationship with us -
Rom 5:10 For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life.


God places His Spirit in us so that we can respond to the Gospel -
Rom 8:7-9

For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God. You, however, are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if in fact the Spirit of God dwells in you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to him.

Eze 36:26-27
And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to obey my rules.

God does this out of grace and mercy to us, not in response to what we do for Him -
Eph 2:8 For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,

Rom 11:6 But if it is by grace, it is no longer on the basis of works; otherwise grace would no longer be grace.

Titus 3:5 he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit,
 
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benlym said:
It had to do with us opening our heart to Jesus and starting a relationship with him. This is what makes you a Son of God. When you accept him to BE MASTER OF YOUR LIFE, he will come reside in your heart and body and change your life. Even if you go far far far from him, he will call you back.. you will hear a inner voice Called the Spirit of Truth (jesus' spirt) tell you to come back to the light and show you what is truth from what is false religion...

Good Day, Benlym

I have bolded the part that I have a concern about. Do you have a passage of Scripture from where this comes?

Peace to u,

Bill
 
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Lockheed said:
We're in agreement in all of this. Our response is faith...God gifts believing to those whom He regenerates through the Spirit's power.

Could you give Scripture refs for the statement in bold? Thanks

It reads like you are asserting that God regenerates first, then gifts faith, then justifies/redeems/saves. Is this correct?
 
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