• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

How do you know it is His will?

Ragedy

Cleaning up my act for the Lord!!
Mar 8, 2006
268
23
Orrington,Maine
✟23,003.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Okay... I'm struggling here. As a new Christian I need some help. A couple of months ago I prayed and prayed for the Lord to guide me in my career. I am currently a 4th grade public school teacher and have become unhappy with where education is going. Well, I wanted to begin my own business of a preschool/daycare. I prayed and prayed and it all seemed to fall into place and a calmness came over me when I thought of it. Well, now my principal who was a friend of mine and my current daycare provider are so angry with me. When I told my daycare provider my plan, the change in her was instant.... as she was a good friend of mine before all of this-- she has become extrememly cold and profefssional. I understand I will be competition, but wouldn't a true friend be happy for you?
So, with that long winded explanation, with all of this negativity surrounding my decision, how do I know that it was His plan and His will for me to do this? How do I know that I did not just push it into my plan and not His? When I pray about it, it feels like I am being guided, but then all of the negativity I face everyday makes me doubt that it is His will and not my own will. HELP!!
:confused:
 

HumbleBee

Well-Known Member
Jan 8, 2004
2,228
147
56
✟3,212.00
Faith
Christian
Hugs Ragedy!

Seems you are experiencing a Divine testing of your faith. James 1 exhorts you to ask for wisdom and how next to proceed. Opposition is always an opportunity to pray more to find out the reason for the 'fireworks' and lack of support...sometimes tiz demonic to hinder your progress, a scheme to try and prevent God's glory from going forth...sometimes opposition is Divine to signify the need for adjusting your plan and direction.

Surmising that your principal-friend doesn't want to lose you as a valued teacher and have to hire someone else. She may even see your moving on as a wedge in your friendship. Your daycare provider may have got upset because your new idea for a preschool/daycare would mean more competition for her.

May God continue to give you more insight into about His specific plan for you.

As you are led of God, you will prevail, no matter the opposition. :thumbsup: :D :clap:

Psalm 37:3-7 Trust in the LORD, and do good; dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness. Delight yourself also in the LORD, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass. He shall bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noonday. Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for Him...

Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.

Acts 5:39 But if it is from God, [they] will not be able to stop [you]; [they] will only find [them]selves fighting against God.
 
Upvote 0