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How do we forgive someone without approving of their behavior?

Gregory Thompson

Change is inevitable, feel free to spare some.
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Since I'm measured the way I measure others, I'd like to view Jesus in the best possible light forgiving everyone. I am reminded of a verse that says, if they knew, then they wouldn't have crucified the Lord of glory.
 
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I struggled with that and decided on what works for me. I may not continue a relationship with a person in order to protect myself but I do try to understand the root of their actions (they felt backed into a corner, etc.), I harbor no ill will and I truly hope the best for them. I pray for them and I know that, if they ever seriously needed anything, I would be there for them. I let them know that. I am so grateful for everything God has given me and I will not let someone else steal my joy (although it has been hard at times). Through Jesus, we have God's unconditional forgiveness based on our faith and we have to give no less then that to other people.
 
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I think that’s fine and dandy if consideration is put into all parties concerned. Let’s say, for instance, you’re mad at your father-in-law and you don’t want him anywhere around your kids basically you just do not like him but the kids do. As a grandfather, these rights can be manipulated by very evil people. Just make sure you’re not the evil person
 
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