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"Every day", seems more like its of that "disordered deal", at least it would seem so to me.
Well, if you both feel that way, I suppose, but gees what some folks believe is that ordered desire thingy, is like way too much.
Like sexual gluttony, I somewhat agree with that comparison.
"Every day", seems more like its of that "disordered deal", at least it would seem so to me.
Well, if you both feel that way, I suppose, but gees what some folks believe is that ordered desire thingy, is like way too much.
Like sexual gluttony, I somewhat agree with that comparison.
That's a delicate issue I think there sis.
David was a man with multiple wives and concubines, and although he clearly sinned through his unfaithfulness to his brother Uriah, God did tell him that he could have been given more of "such and such things" had he gone through the proper channels and asked instead of taking what he shouldn't have (2 Sam 12:8). If we're not careful in applying popular christian "anti-sexual" attitudes, we could end up considering Christ to be the Son of "a sexual glutton." But that shouldn't be very surprising as people seemed to have a tendency to call Him "a glutton and a drunkard" anyway.
Nope, that's a consecrated widow. The temple virgins served the temple. Anna never left the temple precincts and prayed and fasted. Consecrated virginity is not unheard of in Judaism.
Correct. The consecrated woman, the non-virgin, and non-menopausal woman served in the temple. IOW, it is obvious from scripture that it wasn't only virgins serving in the temple. Thus, the argument that originated from the docetic Protoevangelium of James about Mary being a dedicated virgin when she was three years old is a non-starter; it's a myth.
There is, however, stories of vestal virgins in Rome.
That's your own belief.I'm sure many do. I pray for them, because they're misled.
I'd dare say some people here pray WHILE "having relations".It is true that it's harder to lust for your spouse than it is someone you're not married to. But there is the element of purity. For example...I wonder how many people in this thread actually pray before they have marital relations? I mean before... Because if God's not in charge of your sex life, he's not in charge of your life...
Marital bed is the least of our concerns.You mean you don't know? LOL...I don't need to be all worked up, and neither does she. And we're fine after 26 years.
Besides, consider this...what if your spouse, God forbid, got into an accident, and was sexually incapacitated for the rest of their life??? Or physically disfigured? Just rhetorical, don't want to derail the thread, anymore than it has been already. All I'm saying is there's plenty to life besides the marital bed.
Desire is not the issue. Disordered desire is. If you spend all day at work daydreaming about the half-hour you'll spend tonight, kind of thing. Extreme activities, too, if you get my drift. Becoming excited upon arriving home and being together is not lust, and I think that involves the whole person, usually...
That's your own belief.
Intimacy with your spouse is not evil.
Even if you are intimate daily, its not evil.
God designed it to deepen intimacy and
God Himself is involved in the Spirit.
You act as though sex is dirty and so
should only be enjoyed how or when
you think is 'holy'.
I'd dare say some people here pray WHILE "having relations".
Marital bed is the least of our concerns.
But it's not dirty in any way and you're
trying to make it seem dirty.. like Mary
having sex with her husband was a dirty thing
and makes her "impure" when it's just the
opposite.
NOT obeying God in the marriage duty is
what makes one vulnerable.
That's your own belief.
Intimacy with your spouse is not evil.
Even if you are intimate daily, its not evil.
God designed it to deepen intimacy and
God Himself is involved in the Spirit.
You act as though sex is dirty and so
should only be enjoyed how or when
you think is 'holy'.
I'd dare say some people here pray WHILE "having relations".
Marital bed is the least of our concerns.
But it's not dirty in any way and you're
trying to make it seem dirty.. like Mary
having sex with her husband was a dirty thing
and makes her "impure" when it's just the
opposite.
NOT obeying God in the marriage duty is
what makes one vulnerable.
I'd dare say some people here pray WHILE "having relations".
That's a good thing, right?
Not sure what you're saying. Could you explain?
I will confess that it was difficult to see what you were getting at with the ramblings about virgins, menopause, and Mary. However, when you mentioned your usual indictment of Marian traditions with the PoJ, and then followed it with a seemingly fallacious genetic link to "stories of vestal virgins in Rome," the strategy became clearer to me.
As such, the question would then remain. From where did the Proto of James and subsequent history get the idea of "vestal virgins"? It is to Rome that we look. They had them. Not Israel.
So naturally you take the association and run with it since it fits your presuppositions about where traditions came from. No, I did not miss anything.
Again, not sure what you're saying, perhaps you are unaware of "vestal virgins"?
Vestal Virgin - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Again, the other link was trying to show that Israel had "vestal virgins". Given Anna from scripture, it is shown that they did not. So, from where did the idea arise that the PoJames used? Not Israel, but Rome.
Again, not sure what you're saying, perhaps you are unaware of "vestal virgins"?
I suspect the catch-22 or between the rock and a hard place sort of problem was lost on folks. Should I spell it out?
She's ever-virgin, thus disobeys scripture, and sins.
She's normally married, thus obeying God, and sinless, but loses the ever-virgin motif.
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