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how did your best friendships start

brinny

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how did your best friendships start

A mutual interest in each other. We made each other laugh and smile. It's also wanting to bless and delight this person.

Respect.
 
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Ironically my best friendships have started with me not wanting to talk to them. LOL

I tend to develop relationships slowly. I warm up slowly and get to know people slowly. I'm nice to them, but I don't interact very much, and gradually decide who is "safe" and compatible.

I saw a psychiatrist once who told me that when it comes to all kinds of relationships, like is a series of temporarily accepting people until you know them well enough to know if they are trustworthy and if you like them. Then you reject the ones who are not and keep the ones who are.
 
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