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Dear Ryukil i've chesked your background. I know you don't want to hear this but, you need proffesssional help.
You didn't like what I replied so you changed the post in order to get, simpathy replies. ie you have now changed the name of the boy she was involved with.
I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be mean, but there are serious physicological issues going on here which are more than likely spiritual also. And that tells me you have low self estem issues, not mention the serious lust issue and a few others. This may steem from the teasing you have taken, but my guess is, you where not teased by people for you wieght issue and I suspect you may not even have a wieght issue.
No one can decide if you need professional help here.Dear Ryukil i've chesked your background. I know you don't want to hear this but, you need proffesssional help.
You didn't like what I replied so you changed the post in order to get, simpathy replies. ie you have now changed the name of the boy she was involved with.
I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be mean, but there are serious physicological issues going on here which are more than likely spiritual also. And that tells me you have low self estem issues, not mention the serious lust issue and a few others. This may steem from the teasing you have taken, but my guess is, you where not teased by people for you wieght issue and I suspect you may not even have a wieght issue.
It's all a covering for you to live in a fantasy world that you have created in your own head. And this pionts to some where in your family, someone, who you claim is a christains but this is not the case. Either in a current generation or a past generation someone has messed with the wrong spirit. And or you have dabbled.
I'm sorry but you just don't get as far out of control as you are while being a good christian, there is something going on here that either you don't know about or your not telling.
In caption:: there is a lot more to this than what your willing to admit.
You are going to continue to suffer and cause yourself much harm because your not willing to accept you have a problem, a very serious problem. I reply this for your own benfit, and I fear that the only thing that will wake you up, is serious spiritual interssion from others in order to set you free.
But others here have said the same thing gathering, from reading your previous posts. I'm only being direct about what others have already replied.
You have a desire of seeking only the answers that you want to hear and this blinds you from the truth that would set you free so you will remain in bondage and there is nothing anyone can do for you, until you admit your problem and bring it out into the light of our lord or until Christ sets you free. Love in the lord Jesus Christ.
I can also basically prove this is not of the lord.
The bible say's : seek first my kingdom and it's rightousness and all these things will be added unto you, eating, drinking, clothes;;; nothing here about girls; ref, Mathew 6:33
"If you continue to follow me and do not stray from the path of righteousness, I will one day give her to you. But be aware that there will be many before you."
I heard this in my head one day when I was praying to God about a situation with a girl I have deep feelings for named Janelle. I am not sure whether it was really from God or it was just my own thoughts. How can I know?
This dream may seem unrelated to God, but this occured shortly after I asked Him for some confirmation of what was said to me. I was in a very large house, perhaps a mansion, and walking around looking for Janelle. I came to a window, and directly outside of it was a swing set. Janelle's friends Stephanie, Emily, and Kristen were on them, but she was not (The three friends and I had been fighting over some issues concerning Janelle for quite a while, and that is only just settling down now, weeks later). Finally, I heard Janelle talking with a little girl (about two days ago, weeks after the dream, I met a little girl at the church who reminded me of her for the first time named Shinade) about me and another boy named Josh. Janelle said she liked both me and Josh. The little girl said,"So why don't you just kiss both of them?" Janelle replied,"I just can't." They were both on a little balcony overlooking a staircase, and while they were talking I had begun to make my way up the stairs. Janelle saw me and blushed. I just turned around and started to walk down the stairs like nothing had happened. She looked at me and said,"Peter, we need to talk." I walked up the stairs and began talking with her a bit, though I don't remember what was said. Josh came up from behind us and made a joke about something, not knowing what Janelle and I were talking about. I stuck out my hand so he could shake it, and I said,"Josh. We need to talk. I don't want this to come between us."
That was the end of the dream. A few days after that I found out that Janelle liked Josh. I had guessed at it already, but it was finally confirmed by my friend. A few days ago the youth group went camping (that's when I met Shinade) and I spoke with Janelle a bit. The whole time she was resting her head on Dan, a sixteen year old from another church. She was all over him...So that's two guys, which doesn't really come to many...
If anyone could interpret this dream for me, I would be grateful.
Even if what you heard in the first post was not of God, it is of God that you walk the path of righteousness, so do that, and stay on it, and if something happens, then okay.I ask that all who read this pray for me, that what God wants me to do would be revealed to me soon. I just saw Janelle a few hours ago at church; we were sitting in the pews. On my right side was my friend Timothy, and on his right side was Janelle. She made some comment to him and he mimicked her in a nazily, girly tone. I gave him a little push, and he pushed me back. She looked at me and said,"That's okay, I don't need anyone to stick up for me. I never do." She said it in a really nasty tone, and it hurt me. Apparently that was noticeable, according to Timothy. She did keep floating around me however; for example, when we were doing a scavenger hunt sort of thing we had to find a book by a specific author. I was in the church library with a member of my team looking for the book. She was on the other team and so she came in looking for it as well. She was standing over me, practically breathing down my neck, so I instinctively moved a bit to the side. Whenever I moved, she moved a little bit more to fill up the space between us. Then she said in a quiet voice, so only I could hear,"It's really hot in here." I responded with a hasty and nervous,"Yeah, I know," and then she left the room. Also, after Bible study, she always stood close to me and gave me a wierd look, like she was expecting me to say something to her. I didn't, but a few minutes later I kinda let a undoubtedly dumb looking, infatuated smirk rest on my face and I kept looking at her. She looked at me with curious, maybe even confused eyes. That was the last I saw of her. Anyhow, I'm debating what to do. I either will let it go and find someone else, or I will get to know her and become friends with her and eventually (in a few years) ask her out. Jesus, I pray that you would show either myself or someone else on these forums what I am supposed to do next with your daughter. Amen.
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