How Can I Be Saved

I think that the best way is through talking to your Pastor
I myself will pray for you that you CAN overcome this in ephesians theres a verse that says that"I can do all things through him who strengthens me"
and well you can overcome this problem but i think you best talk to your Pastor
God Bless
Bayne

I dont know if you will get many responses here, but I would like to say that I commend you for coming out with all the things that you have done. I also commend you for wanting to change. The things you need to do to be saved: Repent of all the sins that you have committed. Pray that God comes into your heart and let the Holy Spirit renew your mind. Refuse to commit these acts again, no matter how badly you want to, no matter what thoughts you have. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. You must resist the urges to do the things that you have done. You must resist the thoughts... whenever you get tempted to do those things again Grab control of your mind and begin to pray... Pray that God takes the thoughts and desires away... Do that every time you are tempted. It will get easier and God will bless your obedience. Read the Word of God every day. Look for answers to how to get through this day by day. Take it one step at a time. You will be healed.

Repent2God said:

Ok Dont Laugh because this is really bad and quite serious.

I've felt my father and mother while they were sleeping. I've had sex with my brother and sister individually at least 5 times each. I don't think I like guys I just think I liked the feeling of the sex. I swore to God over and over that I'd stop but I haven't yet. Knowing what I did wrong I continued anyway. I want to enter heaven and have eternal life, how can I do this with the betrayals against God I've made?

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Yes, it is a huge step for you to come here and confess this sin. You have to be very careful right now. Unlike many other sins that hurt the individual, you are hurting your brother and sister physically and emotionally, and possibly "violating" your parents in certain ways. First, realize that no sin is too big for the forgiveness of God through Christ's atoning death FOR YOU. Confess that sin, repent from your ways (turn from them) and ask Christ to come in to your heart and BE LORD by taking the throne of your heart. Once you do that, and walk by faith, you will have a spot in the book of life. Apart from this, please realize the lasting effects you are having on your siblings. Most likely they have been traumatized for life in some way, in the sense that they may never fully recover. I hope that is incentive enough to stop what you are doing--if not for yourself, please do it for them. How old are you? 13? I am assuming they are quite young... Remember that God can forgive you for ANYTHING, but you have to take the step of faith. Please do not do this anymore because you are damaging the lives of others. It is like drug addiction or alcoholism. Not only are you damaging yourself (spiritually, eternally) you are actually physically and emotionally harming others. I pray that God would convict your heart about this. Remember you are loved no matter what and don't give up. God bless

Repent2God said:

I don't think I like guys I just think I liked the feeling of the sex. I swore to God over and over that I'd stop but I haven't yet. Knowing what I did wrong I continued anyway. I want to enter heaven and have eternal life, how can I do this with the betrayals against God I've made?

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Having sex with other men is unnatural. It goes against God's idea of life and pro-creation. In fact, God sees homosexuality as an abomination.

Look at this:
" 'If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.(leviticus 20:13)

if you were living under Moses time period, you would be put to death.

I know you have the "urge" to have sex, but you have to control yourself. Having sex with your sisters can result in pregnancy. How would you feel if you slept with your mother and got her pregnant?

There was also man in the new testament who had sex with his mother ( 1 corinthians 5:1).

Now, there is a message of hope.

Jesus said: "All sins shall be forgiven unto men" and "he that believth in me hath eternal life". Yes, we have all sinned and transgressed the law. Regardless of what we have done, we can come to Jesus and receive eternal life. Paul, the writer of many new testament books, killed many christians before he became one. If you want eternal life, confess what you have done, REPENT, and believe that Jesus is God Almighty who came done to offer himself as our passover lamb.

You need to stabilize your home, and i suggest seeking a consoler. You can be pure, holy, and perfect before God by his blood...which we receive if we ask him into our hearts.

You can PM me if you want if you need advice, etc

You need therapy. This is not normal behavior. But it sounds like you realize that. It's good that you are seeking help here - I suggest talking to a trusted adult or relative or calling a teen hotline. Depending on where you live, there are confidential mental health hotlines. You say you have had sex with your siblings; how old are they? This could be considered sexual abuse and you will need help with these behaviors. Please, please, seek help.

feline said:

You need therapy. This is not normal behavior. But it sounds like you realize that. It's good that you are seeking help here - I suggest talking to a trusted adult or relative or calling a teen hotline. Depending on where you live, there are confidential mental health hotlines. You say you have had sex with your siblings; how old are they? This could be considered sexual abuse and you will need help with these behaviors. Please, please, seek help.

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I totally agree that you need therapy. If your siblings are younger than you, it is sexual abuse, and you need help now. Ask your parents to get you an appointment with a therapist. You don't have to tell them why, just that you need to talk to a therapist. Whatever you tell a therapist has to be kept in confindence, unless you tell him you plan to hurt yourself or someone else.

Please reach out for help and get it.

Trish

Don't despair. You do have some real issues to face and work through. You will need some really good counsel and support. Be encouraged, God has not written you off. You are still very young, and should be able to get things together OK given time and support

John
NZ

Are you familiar with Luke 15? There's a passage, starting in verse 15, that's known as 'the parable of the Prodigal Son'... although I've heard that it really ought to be called 'the parable of the Father's Love'.

In it, the son wrongs his father, and is convinced that he will never be allowed back. He comes to offer himself as his father's servant.

Luk 15:20 "He arose, and came to his father. But while he was still far off, his father saw him, and was moved with compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.
Luk 15:21 The son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in your sight. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.'
Luk 15:22 "But the father said to his servants, 'Bring out the best robe, and put it on him. Put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet.
Luk 15:23 Bring the fattened calf, kill it, and let us eat, and celebrate;
Luk 15:24 for this, my son, was dead, and is alive again. He was lost, and is found.' They began to celebrate.

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Despite everything, God's love remains. He is waiting for your return, that He may welcome you with open arms!

Nothing you've done is something God hasn't already dealt with. Jesus' death and ressurection dealt with *every* sin. And there is nothing you could do that He hasn't seen, and forgiven, before.

He really does want you. He wants to rescue you from everything that keeps you from Him; no matter how wretched it makes you feel.

Seek Him; you'll be amazed at the love you find.

Your brother in Christ,
Andrew

Cristiano said:

, realize that no sin is too big for the forgiveness of God through Christ's atoning death FOR YOU.

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That is so true

The only way to overcome lust and sexual sins is by admitting to it
calling out to God in Despairation and then Turning from it.

That is what i realised about 3 weeks ago
that I have been able to Overcome lust and living a righteous life.
God Bless

repent2God, God doesn't care what you have done in the past......
He is ALWAYS there to comfort, and save you from the sins that the enemy tricked you into doing... God's children are not characterized by thier actions..
the actions are exactly that......( empty actions) what makes us who we are is the life and the blood of Christ.. so here's what you do........ turn to a religious leader in your community.... assk for help answering any other questions.. and then have someone pray the salvation prayer with you
" I praise you God, as the Creator of Heaven and Earth.
I am a sinner, and I ask for your forgiveness. come
Jesus and live in my heart and be the Lord of my life.

In Jesus' Name
Amen." John:14:6