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llghoney said:
Awww goodness I pray for you to in that you guys will have a healthy pregnancy!

What is so weird is how I try to block it out like it never happened so I won't be all sad. Does anyone else do that?
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Yeah, I feel the same. I feel like the only times I feel better is when I deliberately ignore it. It's very hard.
 
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I am in tears over this board.. My 1st pregnancy was in 02 and it was very difficult..I have a bear that I keep to remind me that he/she is in heaven with our Lord and savior.. I have a son now but man its still difficult to think about, I was depressed and very upset over the loss and I was scared when I carried my son for fear would repeat.. I thank God for all of you who gone through this.. Not many mention it and it breaks my heart to see no true support for loss no matter how major/minor it was its a loss of a life and a true angel.. God bless you all ladies..

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I had a m/c on Dec 12 of 06. The only thing I have to remember is the hospital braclets they have you wear when you go in there. I think of the baby I would have had when i see those braclets, its still saddens me.

Sorry to everyone that has experienced a loss of a child, praying for you all.
 
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We had a miscarriage and two ectopic pregnancies in between our first and second child, we never thought it would happen to us. We bought some figures from the willow tree collection, One of them shows an angel with a child in its arms, we liked it, its not too twee or fussy but it is well done.
 
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Sorry for everones loss!!!!

ANd I do know how the little things like the bracelet from the hospital & stuff brings back memories. Hugs to all of you!!

J20: I haven't met tooo many women that experienced an ectopic pregnancy did it take your wife a while to recover?
 
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Probably took her about six months to recover physically, but it took her probably longer to get over the worry that having only one fallopian tube was going to reduce our chances of having another child. The second ectopic was strange because the egg implanted itself on the remains of the tube that had been removed. After that we found it extremely nerve wracking when we were pregnant with our second child. One thing it did do for us was help us relate to another couple in our church who had been through a similar experience. Her ectopic was worse though as it ruptured and she ended up in intensive care for a while.
 
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llghoney said:
Goodness, what happened with the 2nd pregnancy? I have never heard of that happening?
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The consultant took a photograph of where the egg had inplanted before dealing with it. So I guess the consultant found it fairly unexpected to. After the second ectopic it seemed like we were never going to have a second child.
 
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