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tinkerbell

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Please pray for me ane one of my friends. She has been confiding in me very deeply with some self-mutilative behaviors. I have been conversing with the deans when necessary. Yesterday was really bad, and when I talked to the Dean and we prayed about it, we decided it would be best to take her to the hospital. She has been admitted and that was her deepest fear. I know I did the right thing, but she still has no clue that I said anything and I just feel like a hypocryte and betrayer. Please pray that I may have peace, and that God will continure to give her the words to say when talking to me. The staff at the hospital and my Dean say that it is a good idea for me to keep in touch with her because she has requested that I know everything that is going on with her, and I am one of the few people she put on her call list. Just pray that GOd will direct my words. Also, please pray for her. That she may recover soon and quickly. Thank you so much!
 
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Are you able to visit her? If she is in a mental health unit, you may not be able to visit, but make sure you call. My mom and I had to bring my sister to the a hospital over an hour away because they had the only open spot in a mental health unit in the state. She took a bunch of pills, she was ok, but really out of it. (My mom is a nurse who monitored her very closely and was in contact with dr.'s to make sure she was alright.) Anyways, it was very hard to go through, I think you did the right thing, its better that she's there now, rather than after she did something extremely drastic. I will keep her in my prayers! :pray:
 
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Tinkerbell, you did the right thing. Your friend needs help. Don't feel like you betrayed her. It would have been worse to let her go on with what she was doing and something worse could and would have happened. In the hospital, hopefully, she will get the care and attention she needs to get better. You are such a kind and caring friend! I will pray for you both!
 
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