Homosexuality

[Lostgirl28]

1. Help, i need help.I am a Christian since i was in college.I move to Norway to work from Philippines.I met this girl in the church inNorway, she is so kind, she is also from Philippines.We became close and eventually bestfriends.I started to feel something but I ignored it, because maybe i am just so happy when i am with her and i consider her as my bestfriend.But then she said she like me too, at first i dont want to try because i know its not allowed but then i get used to it.I tried many times to break the relationship, but she hurts herself everytime i do it.And then her mom got cancer back home and i thought to stay beside her since we are so far from our families, we only got each other. Her mom got cured so i thought its time for me to leave the relationship, but she needs to move to spain because her contract in norway was already finish, and i canceled the break up because i am afraid she might hur herself again specially now she is all alone in spain, i am not with her i cant controll what she will do to herself, and now her mom got cancer again and i asked God that if her mom will not undergo chemotherapy again, it means God wants me to stop the relationpship, but her mom continued on chemotherapy and she said she needed me, she said she draws strenght from me.,my problem is everyday i am troubled that my relationship with her is wrong and i am hurting my family but i cant leave her because she needed me in this situation that her mom is sick.what should i do now, help me i am getting crazy <staff edit> i dont want to feel the comdemnation and pain, i know God would not me allow in heaven because of this sin.
   Thank you for responses and time to read

 

[stevenfrancis]

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[tampasteve]

Leaving the question of homosexuality aside, being with someone that is manipulating you by hurting themselves is wrong in and of itself. She is in the wrong to do that to you, and you do not need to be with someone that is like that. It is hard to break it off with people that manipulate you by hurting themselves, but in the end something must be done. It is not fair to keep yourself trapped in a situation like that.

 

[aiki]

Help, i need help.I am a Christian since i was in college.I move to Norway to work from Philippines.I met this girl in the church inNorway, she is so kind, she is also from Philippines.We became close and eventually bestfriends.I started to feel something but I ignored it, because maybe i am just so happy when i am with her and i consider her as my bestfriend.But then she said she like me too, at first i dont want to try because i know its not allowed but then i get used to it.

You cannot be a Christian and also a practicing homosexual.

1 Corinthians 6:9-10
9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites,
10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.

Whatever reasons you may have for getting into this perverted relationship, if you truly are a disciple of Christ, a Christian, you must forsake it entirely.

i asked God that if her mom will not undergo chemotherapy again, it means God wants me to stop the relationpship,

You don't need a sign from God that you should stop your lesbian relationship. He has already said in His word, the Bible, that lesbian relationships are evil, and destructive, and have no place in the life a Christian.

my problem is everyday i am troubled that my relationship with her is wrong

It is wrong. Very wrong. You need to confess to God that you have been sinning against Him in this relationship with your friend and turn away from all lesbian thinking and living.

i cant leave her because she needed me in this situation that her mom is sick

Your friend needs God, not you. God can help your friend far more than you can. Staying with her, keeping your relationship with her going, is causing you both to sin against God and each other. God promises that our sin will always bring us to death. Do you want death for yourself and your friend?

i dont want to feel the comdemnation and pain, i know God would not me allow in heaven because of this sin.

James 4:8-10
8 Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.
9 Lament and mourn and weep! Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom.
10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.

1 John 1:9
9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.