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Holier Than Thou

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“Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, ‘God I thank You that I am not like other men-extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I possess.’ And the tax collector, standing afar off, would not so much as raise his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God be merciful to me a sinner!’ I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” - Luke 18:10-14.



It appears it is human nature to want to be better than average and better than others. Apparently we often think we are doing better than others when we really are not. Researchers at Northwestern, Duke, and Harvard universities conducted a study asking investors how their portfolios performed as compared to the Standard & Poor stock index. One third believed their portfolios performed better than the market by five percent. One out of six believed their portfolios performed better by ten percent. However, when their portfolios were actually examined 88 percent had overestimated the performance. The Pharisee had obviously overestimated his spiritual condition as well. The Pharisee looked at his neighbor, the tax collector, and concluded he was much more righteous than his neighbor. Jesus saw them both in a different light.



Before we consider ourselves to be spiritually better than our neighbors perhaps we should consider how Jesus sees us. It may be that we have overestimated our position.



By Ed Wrather

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Have you every met someone whom you knew was talking the talk, but not walking the walk? I have and even though I knew this I still loved that person. God told us to Love one another as He Loved us. By showing this love for the other person it just might help them realize where they’re wrong and start walking the walk. Make sure your walking with Jesus today and SMILE because God Loves You.



By Ed Wrather

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Thank you. We never know the true trials of another or why one must have gone through things to be what they are now. I have come across the holier than thous and I have been judged. I am glad that there is only one judge- the Judge of us all. We are a Christian Nation. It is not for us to judge each other but to support. TY TY TY for this note.
 
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FishR'O'Men said:
Thank you. We never know the true trials of another or why one must have gone through things to be what they are now. I have come across the holier than thous and I have been judged. I am glad that there is only one judge- the Judge of us all. We are a Christian Nation. It is not for us to judge each other but to support. TY TY TY for this note.
You're very welcome and Welcome to the message board..:) :wave:
 
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A very enriching devo to start my day and bring in the weekend! I appreciate this post more than you know. It's often easy to get caught up in other's negative affairs, all along overlooking those things in your own life that you should be giving your attention too.
 
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Busybee said:
A very enriching devo to start my day and bring in the weekend! I appreciate this post more than you know. It's often easy to get caught up in other's negative affairs, all along overlooking those things in your own life that you should be giving your attention too.
So often we look to help others that we miss the need in our own families..:)
 
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THAT'S EXACTLY what I wanted to say Richard. Ya took the words right out of my mouth. The Lord gave me a wake up call just yesterday. Praise Him for his compassion! And as soon as it happened, I KNEW instantly that my situation wasn't going on just to cause me distress. It was to grow me and teach me concerning my Pharisee type attitude (when the Pharisee and tax collector prayed). Although, I never have prayed that way, I still had developed that mentality.

I thank the Lord for that, because now I'm so much stronger and I feel the Spirit working in me:bow: !
 
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THAT'S EXACTLY what I wanted to say Richard. Ya took the words right out of my mouth. The Lord gave me a wake up call just yesterday. Praise Him for his compassion! And as soon as it happened, I KNEW instantly that my situation wasn't going on just to cause me distress. It was to grow me and teach me concerning my Pharisee type attitude (when the Pharisee and tax collector prayed). Although, I never have prayed that way, I still had developed that mentality.

I thank the Lord for that, because now I'm so much stronger and I feel the Spirit working in me:bow: !
To often this happens in our own families. The sad part is the hard lesson we have to learn from it. But in the end, it's all good..:)
 
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