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Hmmmm....

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Scenario:


Girlfriend tells boyfriend that he is welcome to use his internet for school but he needs to provide a router so that they both can use the internet at the same time. Both have school. Girl pays for internet as the internet is in her house and he doesn't have internet in his. Boyfriend can afford router.

Few weeks later.....

Boyfriend doesn't buy router. Asks to use internet to work on school. Girlfriend says yes, but asks him to get a router by the next day. He says the girl is selfish. He gets frustrated because she has brought up the router. She brings up the fact that she pays for the internet. It doesn't make sense that he wouldn't just get a router. He chooses to not take responsibility for him needing to buy a router if he wants to use her internet. He doesn't acknowledge that she has already discussed this with him when he had time to prepare (by obtaining the router). He uses some swear words, states she doesn't care. Boyfriend leaves.

:confused::confused::confused: Girl is confused. Thoughts?
 
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vanillakay

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Dump him. Plain and simple chica. Im assuming you guys are living togather right? is he helping to pay other bills there?.. im sorry but if your paying for internet then getting a router does'nt seem like alot to ask. He's being very selfish to put it mildly and cussing and getting annnoyed with you is just plain disrespectful. Sounds like he wants the benefits without coughing up the dough.
 
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I'm a bit confused, I don't think he does live with her. "Girl pays for internet as the internet is in her house and he doesn't have internet in his."

Why does he need another router to use the Internet at your house? Does yours need replacing because at our house we only have 1 router that we all use.
 
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She's within her right to say no but I'm with the above that I don't understand why it's such an issue that she can't give it up for a few hours so he can do his homework. Either she has a job that requires it or has homework that absolutely requires her to be online to work on it? Otherwise this whole scenario screams of addiction.
 
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