It's a tough issue all around. I think it's high on many priority lists; but orthodoxy is higher. For instance I expect to be limited to the EPC shortly, because of the strident calls against New Perspectivists.
If the OPC actually merges with another church -- its heritage will be lost. And it's quite a heritage of most of the major conservative Presbyterian theologians of the 20th Century.
There's really only one major conservative Presbyterian denomination if you omit the EPC, and that's the PCA. The OPC consists of less than 25000 members.
There's no such thing as a "right" split, nor is there any such thing as a "right" merger or a "right" remaining together. That's the essence of Total Inability. The theodicy of Reformed thought demands that "such things must happen" (1 Cor 11:~17) so the surprise of those outside isn't really a major factor for me. It's part of the fact of evil. We aren't God.
Each church must be in a position to redeem the times. If we could get some kind of unity around that principle, I think maybe we could deal with the doctrinal differences in toleration and appreciation.
'Til then I'll be in the EPC, which has already scoped out its doctrinal essentials. The rest we must approach redemptively and not with the force of denominational courts.
I think people can "get along" in the marketplace because there is no true unity of communion implied there. But in the Body of Christ ... a certain kind of heart-unity is important. And maybe that's the point. Without enough appreciation for our own sin we're left telling Christ-in-the-Sinner, "Keep to yourself, do not come near me, for I am too holy for you." Is 65:5.
Oh, the days when I drew lines around my faith
To keep you out, to keep me in, to keep it safe
Oh, the sense of my own self entitlement
To say who's wrong or won't belong or cannot stay
'Cause somebody somewhere decided
We'd be better off divided
And somehow despite the damage done
He says, "come" ...
There is room enough for all of us, please come
And the arms are open wide enough, please come
And our parts are never greater than the sum
This is the heart of the One
Who stands before an open door and bids us, "come"
Oh, the times when I haved failed to recognise
How may chairs are gathered there around the feast
To break the bread and break these boundaries
That have kept us from our only common ground
The invitation to sit down
If we will come ...
There is room enough for all of us, please come
And the arms are open wide enough, please come
And our parts are never greater than the sum
This is the heart of the One
Who stands before an open door and bids us, "come"
Come, from the best of humanity
Come, from the depths of depravity
Come now and see how we need
Every different bead on this same string
Come ...
There is room enough for all of us, please come
And the arms are open wide enough, please come
And our parts are never greater than the sum
This is the heart of the One
Who stands before an open door and bids us, "come"
(Nicole Nordeman, "Please Come")