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well, i dont know what to tell you, but pray...pray very hard to God for his guidence on what 2 do. and i will pray for you and your family also...if u ever need to talk in here, just pm me...o and welcome to the board i hope u can find some help here;im sure u will i have...

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Wow, seems like you have a lot on you. Like guitar_gurl07, i stress praying, and remember, God never shuts all the doors on his children. I'll pray for God to show you the way to go soon. I'll also pray for your family. I hope i gave you something resembling the help you were looking for.

Go with God.
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heya. :hug: :hug: I'm sorry for what you're going through!! Does your dad make you go crazy, feel bad..?
:hug: just wanted to say. it'S real horrible to not be able to say you got a home, but if ur
lookin for advice on this one, maybe You can imagine God & Jesus as your family, and
home whereever you are and what you are going through. there's a passage from
a book tht helped me to imagine things better, can tell u more if u want =)
:pray: wishin ya all the best
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Hey.

Your situation sounds a lot like mine a couple of years ago.. my mum remarried and I used to think that her new husband didn't want me around. Now sometimes when we argued it seems that way still. They have two kids together and I feel like I get left out a lot, as if i'm the one 'on the side.'

What can help you here is praying, and talking. Talk to your mum, sit her down and say something like, 'mum, I don't want to leave you and I love you but I think....' and I think perhaps maybe you'll get to like her fiance if you talk to him too . You've only met him a few times, that's not enough to know him. First impressions can be changed, you just need to work at it. Spend more time with them. Try to make conversation so he'll see you as nice and friendly. Maybe have an 'indepth' conversation about moving in with him and how you'll try your best to get on. He'll really respect you for that and your relationship could get better.

Of course, things don't always work out as planned. Try this for now... if you need any further help PM me.

Jessie xxx
 
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I'm so sorry about your condition. At where I'm living, we hardly come across such situation but I can imagine a young little kid like you not having a place to stay, don't even know where to turn to, etc. It's really very painful...

I agree with InvisibleExistence and the rest that you gotta pray to ask God to give you the wisdom to deal with this situation. Pray before you have a talk with your mum and also spend some time with your mum's fiance so that he'll know you better. I believe this is the best way out.

I'll :pray: for you.
 
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Hutch! My heart goes out to you dear friend of mine. I love you...Jesus loves you. No matter what happens, Jesus will be there for you, even if it doesn't feel that way. Oh dear friend...this life is painful. I will be praying. PM me if you need to talk.
 
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i understand where you are coming from. my 18th birthday is in 6 days. my parents are in the middle of a divorce. my mom will b leaving to stay at a friends house in a spare room until she can get enough money to take me with her. there is no room for me where she is going. tonite my dad told her, if she leaves me here there will b problems, and im scared of wut those problems will be, more like terrified. so im going to b staying with a friend of mine 4 a bit...then i don't know where. at one point i was so worried that i wouldn't have BOTH of my parents around at once...but now neither one will b around. i might get to go back with my mom hopefully around christmas. but i have never felt so unwanted in my life. so what i suggest is, find a really good friend that you could stay with if possible, thats what i did shes like a sister 2 me. or another suggestion is maybe go to someone at your church, and if worst comes to worst there are group homes where you stay while you are in school and everything. just keep praying for something good, u'll find it. pm me if u want to talk or anyhting. *hugs*
 
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