shyfaeryxx said:
1) If God is androgynous -neither a man nor a woman- what do I refer to him as? He or She? Mother or Father? Isn't he really both then? And therefor what does he physically look like?
Firstly, it is not quite correct to say that God is androgynous. The Bible teaches that God and Humanity have a special relationship with each other that does not exist between God and any other creature. This is because Humans are made in the image of God (Gen.1:26-27). Because of this special relationship the terms 'male' and 'female' come into play. These terms are not absolute but are relative to each other. God (in relation to Humans) is always 'male'. This is why the Bible
ALWAYS defines God in 'male' terms and
NEVER defines God in 'female' terms. [On the few occasions when the Bible speaks of God using 'female' terms it is always of the nature of similie - God is
like a mother rather than actually being a mother.] This is why the Bible teaches us that God is our
Father and not our
Mother; our
Lord and not our
Lady; our
King and not our
Queen; our
Master and not our
Mistress. It is for this reason that the Messiah (as the one Being who is both Infinite Divine and finite human - 'Emmanuel' - 'God with us') is exclusively 'male' and could not be 'female'
Humans, on the other hand, are
ALWAYS referred to collectively (in relation to God) in 'female' terms and
NEVER in 'male' terms. This is why in the Old Testament Israel is depicted as the 'wife' of YHWH and YHWH as her husband (Isa.54:5; Jer.3:14; 31:32; Hos.2:16 etc.) and in the New Testament the Church is depicted as 'the Bride of the Messiah' (Rev.18:23; 19:7; 21:2; 21:9; 22:17).
The exact nature of this relationship between God and humanity (especially redeemed humanity) is a profound sacred (spiritual) mystery which is represented by the institution of human marriage as a representational type or cameo of the 'master relationship' between God and humanity. The man as 'male' represents God and the woman as 'female' represents Humanity. Although there are obvious differences in the relationship between God and humans [God is Infinite Divine Creator whereas Man is finite human creature] there are also strong similarities [the Image] and these should not be ignored or down-played. The Bible declares that the 'male' is to take the lead but this is
not to be understood as 'the 'male' is '
superior' to the 'female'' since the partnership is one of
equality as well as
difference. (cf Eph.5:22-33).
Eventually, the 'master relationship' between God and redeemed humanity will be revealed for all Creation to behold. When this happens all the representational types or cameoes will become obsolete [which is why all individual marriages between men and women end at physical death] since that which is being represented will finally be revealed in all its glory.
Matt.22:23-33 - When the Sadducees (who did not believe in the resurrection, which is why they were sad, you see?!) tried to trap the Messiah with what they thought was an impossible theological problem, that of a woman who married a man and, according to accepted Jewish custom, when her husband died without leaving any children, the woman married the man's brother so that he could have children to continue the name of the deceased brother. Unfortunately [
very unfortunately], this scenario was repeated six times (?!) until the woman had been the wife of all seven brothers [either she or the brothers' family must have been cursed (?!)] Finally, the Sadducees asked the Messiah, "At the Resurrection, who's wife will she be?" The Messiah's reply was first to rebuke them for their unbelief and then to correct their defective theology. The Messiah taught the Sadducees that at the Resurrection, people will neither marry (men) nor be given in marriage (women) but they will be like the angels in heaven (which does not mean that humans will suddenly become a-sexual but rather that, like the angels, humans will no longer marry each other). This is because, at the Resurrection, there will only be
ONE MARRIAGE between God and redeemed humanity collectively. This was always the 'Master Plan' as far as God was concerned and he intends to see it through to the end. It is for this reason that God declares that he hates divorce (Mal.2:16) since he passionately loves the Human Race with every fibre of his Being and 'divorcing' us for another is just absolutely unthinkable (such is the strength and passion of God's Love for us). God has reluctantly conceded divorce between individual human beings because of the hardness of their hearts (since God has no desire to see humans suffer in a destructive 'marriage') but this is not what God wants ideally.
See:
Leadership Is Male by David Pawson, available online from either
www.anchor-recordings.com (UK) or
www.Goodseed.org (USA) or from your local Christian bookstore or public lending library.
God does not 'look like' anything.
'God is Spirit and they that worship Him must worship Him in Spirit and in Truth' (Jn.4:24). When the Bible says 'No man has ever seen God [i.e. the Father in Heaven]' (Jn.6:46), it is for one reason and one reason only, there is nothing to see. God [in Heaven] has no physical form. However, since the Incarnation, God has incorporated human-ness into Himself in the Person of the Messiah (Jn.14:9) so now, if one has seen the Messiah then one has truely seen God.
shyfaeryxx said:
2) I heard that it says in the Bible that "the man is the head of the household." Is this true?
Yes, it is. For reasons I have discussed in answer one.
shyfaeryxx said:
3) What is God's personality like? Is he strict or ever hot-tempered? Does he ever get dissapointed or ashamed with us?
God is Love (1Jn.4:8). This is the foundational basis of who God is. This single attribute underpins all of his other attributes. It is because God is Love that he is also Holy, Righteous, Just, Gracious, Merciful. When God gets angry it is because he is passionate about us and he loves and cares both about and for us. God's anger is always destructive but it is always absolutely precise (like a laser beam) and
ONLY destroys that which would seek to destroy those he loves. God
NEVER flies off in uncontrolable rage and although his anger can flare up in a moment, he is quick to end it because he takes no pleasure in venting his anger. His constant over-riding hearts desire is to be in loving fellowship with his creatures (Ps.136).
Since God is all-knowing (omniscient) and there has NEVER been a point when he was not omniscient, then nothing you can do will ever surprize him or catch him unawares. He knows, and has known, the whole of your life (and everyone else's lives) from all eternity. God knows not only what has and will happen but also what might or could happen but never actually will happen too, in other words all possible possibilities even though they will never become actual reality. Furthermore, simply because God already knows all this in advance, it does not affect, in any way, shape or form, your abillity to freely make any kind of choice (moral or otherwise). Personally, I don't think it would be correct to say that God is ever ashamed or disappionted in us since these are traits of a Being with finite limited knowledge (a creature) rather than God.
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