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Thanks Dralan....it wasn't just the group or the format it was someone who goes to most of the meetings in my area who started stalking me...I had to go to the police to get it to stop. But you are right...maybe if I try to get some out of town...thanks again!
 
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Hey all....

I just wanted to say Hi to everyone. I got sober w/ AA but after some bad experiences with meetings have not attended in quite some time. I have, however, found my new Christian family to provide the same (if not better) support. Anyway....HI!!!:wave:

Hey you! welcome to the Recovery Forum. :wave:

Sorry to herar about your expereinces with meetings. Yu didnt specify male or female but I assume male - most cities will have Ladies Only meetings at least onne a week. Does your?

And another thought - and this is a good one if uits available in your area - Celebrate Recovery

A christian recovery program very simliar to AA but is christian focused.

http://www.celebraterecovery.com/

there you can find out what is in your area. If there is one, I really highly strongly suggest you check it out!

anyways, welcome to Recovery. Hi, My name is Norm (justanobserver) and I am a recovering alcoholic/addict.
 
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Alcoholics Anonymous is NOT for all drunks.

There are 2 12-Step groups for Alcohol-related issues:
1) AA; and
2) Al-Anon.

There are 2 basic personality types, for people who are affected by alcohol (either by relatives, or self):
1) A person who is self-obsessed, and doesn't much care about anyone else; and
2) A person who obsessively thinks about others and their needs.

The self-obsessed alcoholics are the center of their Universe.
They do well in going to AA meetings.

The others-obsessed people don't do too well at AA meetings.
When they share, many times others will come up and tell them that they aren't being honest.

So, many alcoholics (who are tender-hearted) attend Al-Anon meetings.
Even though it is set-up for people who are around alcoholics, they are welcome.

If you are one of those others-obsessed people, I recommend that you go to a couple of Al-Anon meetings.
Do it as an experiment.
Sit there, and see if you can more-closely relate to the people there.
 
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