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Princess Pea said:Echoespeak006 said:Oh, I agree with you, but even then I still think it comes down to communication (whether verbal or not). You're right - "stringing a person" is really a pain. At some point, an individual will have to shape up or ship out. If they can't do that, then you shouldn't be dealing with them.
I agree - there's nothing like communication for clearing things up in a relationship - any relationship.
No one in particular - anyone who needs to hear it, I guess. Myself, a few years back ...But I didn't see anything in your posts that indicated you needed to hear it, if that's what you were wondering ...
Good - just had to make sure!Echoespeak006 said:Oh, I was more amused than offended. It was more a rhetorical statement....and yeah, I've been there.
Princess Pea said:Good - just had to make sure!I've been there too - that's why I can say all this stuff now. Experience certainly is an effective teacher, isn't it?
GrimWolf said:I am that type of guy...The thing is, sometimes your just not sure if the girl actually feels the same way you do. It often happens when you have known the girl for quite some time and you are afraid of losing the friendship.
Blond girls just seem to attract my attention more easily and if they have blue eyes added to that, well then I am fascinated, hehe.
The "players" are good at it because they don't really care about anyone but themselves - they don't know what its like to be toyed with. Its an unfortunate fact that many people fall for them.
GrimWolf said:It never seizes to amaze me how a girl will tell you that she wants a man with all those loving attributes and then a week later she's hanging out with one of those scummy guys. It totally baffles me.
Thats why they are players. I always said that if I were a sales manger I could stock my business with the best talent around. Just go out and recruit the biggest playboys in town. They are good about giving the females a perception of what they want until they get what they want - sex. And too many good women fall into the trap. THats because most of them have this "fairytale romance" complex and the players create the illusion that thats what they'll be getting. It may not look like that from the outside but remember you're not the one who's being played. Honestly I tried to be a player for only the goal of increasing my social standing. But I found that I was not a big enough creep and to succeed I would have to be patently unscupulous and have no concern for the women or their feelings. It's a double edged sword. If I succeeded in wiping out all conscience and morality then I could never experience the dual emotion and feelings that come with a deep intimate involvement with that person. A player will never get to that level becasue their personal lives are just a scorecard.GrimWolf said:It never seizes to amaze me how a girl will tell you that she wants a man with all those loving attributes and then a week later she's hanging out with one of those scummy guys. It totally baffles me.
brizyboy said:~Joe Jackson sings~ "Is she really going out with him?"
Hmmm, is there a similar song for the girls?
brizyboy said:But I have come to realise, that the girl I will end up with will find me attractive(even if I do get tongue-tied). If they don't, then they're not the right girl and I don't need to doubt myself because of it.
Willtor said:You know it. But the quote is actually from Serenity.
jerseyfresh said:I haven't seen Serenity yet. I still have a few more episodes to watch. I'm chuggin' along.
OhhJim said:But, see, you paint each other's nails!
Do I have to explain how to be a woman to you?
Willtor said:Tell that to Inara.
stormgade4 said:I really like Firefly. I hear rumors of a season two being pay per episode on itunes.
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