First let me give a bit of information. I am 28 years old and have been a devoted follower of Jesus since I was in high school. I have never been in an official relationship. Having a wife and starating a family is a dream if mine and something I feel God has promised me. I was a youth pastor for a few years and then left to pursue a bachelor's degree and graduated a few weeks ago. I have had two women in my life I absolutely thought where the "one". The first really liked me but due to some personal issues never felt like she could commit to me because she was afraid she would ruin me. The second was an old student of mine who actually attended the same college I did. She lead me on for about 6 months and everytime I tried to enter into an official relationship she would say "I just want to be friends right now."
About a year ago I joined an online dating site. I went on a few dates but never met anyone I really clicked with. So after a few failed dates I took a break and now am at this critical point. Anytime I meet someone I am interested in I can never get the relationship beyond friendship. women seem to want nothing to do with me and I can't figure it out. People tell me I'm attractive and a great catch but I can't seem to find anyone I mesh with. I'm a INFJ and naturally shy and don't make friends very easily and have a slight lean of social anxiety. I feel like women hate me and want nothing to do with me. I have no clue when it comes to meeting women, asking out womwen. It all seems so dang complicated and there is too much going on for me to follow. Any advice would.be great.
About a year ago I joined an online dating site. I went on a few dates but never met anyone I really clicked with. So after a few failed dates I took a break and now am at this critical point. Anytime I meet someone I am interested in I can never get the relationship beyond friendship. women seem to want nothing to do with me and I can't figure it out. People tell me I'm attractive and a great catch but I can't seem to find anyone I mesh with. I'm a INFJ and naturally shy and don't make friends very easily and have a slight lean of social anxiety. I feel like women hate me and want nothing to do with me. I have no clue when it comes to meeting women, asking out womwen. It all seems so dang complicated and there is too much going on for me to follow. Any advice would.be great.