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[ThebrokenMan30]

I have been working hard for two years. I have been doing it all alone and she wont work. We've lost our home, we've been kicked out of family houses, because they think we are not trying.

Secondly, I cook, clean, and take care of the child (outside beastfeeding). She only shows zeal for me when she is handing over the kid. I want to have time with her alone, but she wont take 15 minutes outside of moping about not having (cause she wont help) to be affectionate with me. Last night I tried to kiss her and she says she is not ready. She told me she wont make me sexually satisfied if it doesnt give her pleasure. Sooo if shes not horny its a wrap. We've only been married a year...soo I dont know what to do!

 

[1watchman]

Sounds like a good case for marriage counseling. Tell her it is essential. If she flat out refuses, and you cannot get her cooperation, then you might need to put some distance between you and her to get her attention.

She seems obviously using you and seeking always to manipulate you (unless there is some deep-seated emotional problem with her). I think you need to "turn the table" as it were and let her feel she is deliberately offending you and you will not play that game. If she doesn't want to be a good wife and act responsible, you should not be willing to obey her and yield always to her. Try taking charge of your marriage. That is my view from what you have shared here. Perhaps I don't have all the facts here. You can PM me if you wish to talk personally.