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Johnnz

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Trust that you are being heard and understood must precede any real 'opening up'. It seems people who can do that are not always easy to find. I accept it often will take many weeks before I get any disclosures of someone's deeper concerns.


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I read this a few days ago and knew I should come back and say I've been here before and still am at times. As John said it's good to feel heard and understood. I am much more open to talking if I feel I'm really being listened to and not judged. I just wanted you to know I don't mind listening or chatting. Take care. I'll be praying.
 
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there are many groups, online and 12 step groups that deal with sexual abuse and emotional dysfunction that comes from it. You really need to talk to people who have been there.... there is help and the most caring people I know are people who have been abused, they feel your pain, understand your turmoil and shame. You have my prayers, andrea
 
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Im guessing you dont want to tell ppl how you feel. But you should rather you feel embarrassed, you should always have a friend to talk to in CHRIST. Its like having a butterfly in a jar, the longer you hold that butterfly in the jar, the weaker it gets.all butterflies are meant to be free, just like feelings, someone somewhere shares your story, and if not, by showing your strength, you prove possibilities to others......and im here if you wanna talk
 
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