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solo66 man

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Godsgurl4ever2006,
Can you please tell me what your real name is?
Are your friends(?) Christians?
Are they telling you what the problem is?
Do you try to discuss the issues they may have with you?
Please do not hurt yourself. You do not deserve that. Even if you did do something to your friends, hurting yourself is not the answer.
I believe there is a problem, but I think it is probably just a misunderstanding.
Please talk to me.
God Bless You!
 
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Hi Godsgurl4ever2006 ,
ok, what you are describing is called "cutting" it is very dangerous and psychologically what happens is you are trying to transfer your emotional pain into physical pain, which leads to cutting yourself. problem is occasionally people have hit an artery and bled to death...not good...ok lets figure out where your emotional pain is coming from? I know that you have been having friend problems lately. tell me about the importance that you place on your friendships? how is your family life? any siblings? I just want to get a better idea, I know you fairly well with all of our pm we send, but I want you to know that I am going to help you through this...I double majored in nursing and psychology and I know quite a bit about the human psyche, I think I can help you through this, no, I know I can help you through this! you are never alone on this world, you have God, your family, and a multitude of friends here at christian forums who love you and care what happens to you...you are still a baby with so much to learn about life and you have just begun to experience the hardships that come with life. I know it is hard to handle disappointments sometimes, but you must know in any bad situation we are given in order to learn and grow, the only way out is through...I am here for you with love and prayers...when you need to talk, I am only a click away...I love you and so do so many people...I am praying for and with you...much love and many blessings...
your friend
Amie :angel:
 
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same post...2 threads...yes, you are crying for help...talk to me, I am right here...praying with love and blessings! talk to your pastor...a counselor...a parent..me!...anybody who can guide you and help you! There must be other issues going on...talk to me! I am praying and I hope to hear from you soon!
Amie :angel:
 
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Or how about we all get on AIM and make a chat room or something? Remember that God is ALWA&YS there for you, no matter what you may feel, and that He won't ever leave nor forsake you, and is you best Friend you can ever have, and won't ever leave your side. So even if all your earthly friends betray or turn from you, God is always there holding your hand.

I'm praying!

God bless ya :)
 
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Originally posted by Godsgurl4ever2006
hey,
lately i have been sad because two of my friends got real mad at me and today one of them got un-mad at me but the other said she hated me and today i was sitting in front of my computer and started to cut myself intenonaly and didn't even know what i was doing

Youll be in my prayers--
If you need anything we (the staff) will be here for you
:pray:
 
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