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Anger is a choice, just like happiness is a choice. Some people chose to be angry. If they are open to suggestions you can mention that their anger is of their own choosing and that they can change by making another choice. Maybe they will heed your suggestion and maybe not.Ms. Becky said:I need some wise counsel. A loved one has had an issue with anger most of his life. He has been in counseling off and on many different times. I understand the reasons for this anger. I am having a hard time understanding why he cannot let it go. Have any of you dealt with any situation similar to this? I am praying about it and will continue to do so.
I guess you have suggested to him that he consider all the things God has forgiven him for. If he considers that, and understands that God has, not only forgiven him of these things, but has also forgotten them. Jer.31: 34mistertee49 said:Those who have hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you now unless you hold on to the pain throught resentment. Your past is past! Nothing will change it. You are only hurting yourself with your bitterness. For your own sake, learn from it, and then let go. The Bible says, "To worry yourself to death with resentment woud be foolish, senseless thing to do."
This came from the book, The Purpose Driven Life. Maybe you should by it and give it to your loved one. It just might help him or her out. Hope this helped out a little.
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