i need some advice really badhey, my name is robin,and i am 17, a senior in high school, i recently moved out of my partents house, because they are too controlling and to strict and wouldn'tlet me grow up and i was not happy with them, they are very mad at me and my fiance - brian, they said right now brian and i don't have their blessing, my dad won't walk me down the isle. well i guess i should start from the begining, a few weeks ago my parents found out we had sex, we know it was a mistake and have repented for it, it was one of those heat of the moment things,but my partents found out because they open a letter i had gotten from him and it mentioned it. (brian goesa to indiana wesleyan university,and i live in MI), and they flipped out,and called his parents told them,told my pastor who then told me i couldn't teach my sunday school class ne more (4 & 5 year olds). my parents said no talking to him or seeing him over midwinter break while he was in town, i said that that was a little unfair,we have alot of things to talk about. oh and my partents dont wan't me to go to IWU and i applied behind their backs and got accepted and they flipped out. ne ways, they were going to make me clean the wholehouse spotless and the garage. they confronted brian about it over the phone and they said he didn't seemed ashamed about it, and they started bashing him, which was making me mad. this all started on valentine's day. so then on thursday i packed all my things and left and i was with brian, he was willing to drop out of college and get a job so that we could get an apartment. so we left, his dad called and left a voice mail saying we have 1 hour to call back or else my parents were calling grand theft auto on me because i had my car which was under their name. so we called and all of us - brian, me, and both sets of parents- met at a resturant and talked and after a couple of hours of being called stupid (i do know that running away was stupid) and being called a liar and not in so many words paratically being called a harlot or brian a rapist. i decided to go home because i didn't have any place to go, plus i was hoping to make compromises and they seemed willing to do that. then i got home and they were yelling at me and said they would not make any compromises or anything. they told me to call brian and leave so i did and then brian's dad wouldn't let him come into the house because they thought it was a trap and my dad wouldn't let me leave with dale and was bashing brian and then when dale said he was getting mad my dad kicked him out. and my dad then called that family psyco and brian a piece of dog **** saying he wasn't really a man ect... and then on friday they pretty much said do everything we say and be perfect or else we will kick you out or you can leave, so i stayed at my aunts for a week then moved out of there and now i am at my fiance's parents house. my mom won't talk to me. my pastor doesn't think i should go back yet. my parents lied to me about so many things, too many to write about. my family thinks i am brain washed by brian, and brian's parents had me talk to a neurtral thrid party to see if it was true, and ahe knew the whole situation and i guess she said i am not. so i have four choices i am go back to my parents house, go to my aunts house(who is worse then parents in some ways), stay at this house, or go to brian's grandpa's house who is another pastor at the church(the only problem is that i would be so bored), and i don't know what to do. my dad wants me to break upi with brian he says he is disrespectful to them and me and thinks he will treat me like ****. but brian isn't like that, he tells me daily how beautiful he thinks i am, how smart i am,how much he loves me, ect. once i was wearing open toed dress shoes and if i got out and walked to the door i would have gotten snow on my feet so he carried me. i know this is the guy God has picked out for me, I knew days before he even asked me out, because i was praying to God to show me my husband, then i met brian,and after a couple months of talking i knew we were meant to be. i need you advice on what i should do, if you could be email me at rdm454@yahoo.com or whatever. thank you so much
robin
