HELP ME PLEASE!!!

[r9703410]

I don't know what to do.

I'm a teen mom my mom is kicking me out I can only stay w/friends for a little bit.
I can't take my baby bc I don't want her to suffer.

PLEASE HELP!!

My life is so painful I'm suffering.

 

[Jesusfreekwanabe]

if i had a realy big house , i would take u in

but that is not the case , this problem is the resut of many other problems .or one big one .

i would offer more advice, but dont know whatt to give advice on , hear is some qustions for u so we can diganose the real problem:

1. have u don any thing that form your point of vew that might cause your mom to kik u out ?
2. do u feel as if she cares about u ?
3. how long have u lived with her .
4.do u think munney is a problem .
5 or is it do u think your mom may just be trying to get u out of her hair , as in just dummping u are more in her way , not nessacly that u may your self casuing her pain .- if that make sence

6 .do u want to live with your mom
7. what do u think your mom sees u as, how do u think her feelings are for u
8. how do u vew your mom
9. umm has the dad have any role in this ? / husband

10. is your mom williing to help take care of child or not any more .

11. do u feel that u have adiqute job skilles any where?
the qustions might seem redundant in some way , u can ancer threw PM or hear , your choice ( IF u ancer hear , u might have more avdice recived than my self )

im sorry to have to qustion u , but i know noting of your problem execpt that uare gettign kiked out adn u have a kid and no where to stay.

 

[netal]

Im so sorry.

At least you can stay with friends for awhile. Take that time to look for a job maybe? Is your mom going to look after your baby?

I wish there was something I could do or say to make it better- but I will pray

 

[Beauty4Ashes]

I'm sorry I've known people that have been in somewhat similar situations. I bet its really tough. I agree with jesusfreekwanabe that it's hard to give advice without hearing more of the story. (good reply btw ) In your honest opinion, would the child be better with you presently or with your mom? If you were your mom and she was the child and the roles were reversed, would you be able to see from her perspective why she feels the need to kick you out? Is there any kind of drugs, alcohol, or abuse involved? If not and you are just looking for somewhere to stay, maybe you can apply for temporary welfare while you look for a job and I think you get gov. money also for supporting a dependant. My friend who is a single mother does. Maybe it would be best for your baby to be with your mom for now until you find somewhere stable. Use the time at your friend's house to update/or make your resume if you don't already have one and try to find work. Most of all, if you do believe in God, turn to him, trust in him. Read your bible pray about this. Do you have a church you can turn to? A pastor? If you don't have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, I suggest that is the first thing you seek because no matter what temporary things you may find to stand on in life. Jesus is the only rock solid enough to NEVER crumble under your feet. If you want to talk further, feel free to pm me.