Help & advice for those whose loved one suffers from depression?

[nvrbnunloved]

Hi all. I have been suffering from depression for some time now, and I know how hard it is on my partner. I wondered if anyone out there also struggles caring for their loved one who has depression, and if you might know of any good books/ websites that I might be able to direct my partner to in order for him to get some support and advice himself? I know there are times when he is trying so hard to help me, and I am completely unable to articulate how I am feeling, which leaves him feeling helpless and frustrated. Any suggestions?

 

[Andy Broadley]

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[Buttermilk]

I'm sorry, I don't know any books or websites but s and s for you and your family. I hope someone is able to give you some advice.

 

[nvrbnunloved]

I'm sorry, I don't know any books or websites but s and s for you and your family. I hope someone is able to give you some advice.

Thanks Buttermilk

 

[goldenviolet]

i don't know any books; but i have another idea. over in the bi-polar forum, we have a thread where we are sharing management skills. another idea i have is to ask the doctor or hospital for a stress relief packet; or refferal for crisis info.
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[Everlasting33]

I also suffer from depression and my boyfriend also feels frustrated/helpless at times. Here are a few books on the American amazon that I found:

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_b/002-4308459-6905658?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=depression+and+spouses

 

[nvrbnunloved]

Thanks guys, will check these out

 

[Debi1967]

Hey just me checking in on ya .... Both me and my hubby suffer from depression at times but me more so than him.... I will try to get rushingwind62 in here to talk to you on how he deals with me... But yeah I know it can really hard so I am praying for you and your family

 

[nvrbnunloved]

Hey just me checking in on ya .... Both me and my hubby suffer from depression at times but me more so than him.... I will try to get rushingwind62 in here to talk to you on how he deals with me... But yeah I know it can really hard so I am praying for you and your family

Thanks Debi

 

[rushingwind62]

Hi all. I have been suffering from depression for some time now, and I know how hard it is on my partner. I wondered if anyone out there also struggles caring for their loved one who has depression, and if you might know of any good books/ websites that I might be able to direct my partner to in order for him to get some support and advice himself? I know there are times when he is trying so hard to help me, and I am completely unable to articulate how I am feeling, which leaves him feeling helpless and frustrated. Any suggestions?

My wife, Debi1967, suffers from depression and other physical illnesses as well. I take care of her 24/7. I don't know of any books or websites but I can tell you what works for me. It does get frustrating at times so it is important for the caregiver to take time for him or herself. Meaning tell your hubby to get out and enjoy himself. Go for a walk, go visit friends, or do something he enjoys doing. It is important he keep a healthy attitude so there is not 2 in the household fighting depression.Try your hardest to articulate how you are feeling, I know it is difficult sometimes but communication is very important. If you haven't already got him info on depression I would suggest that. Most pyschatrist office have info that is free and you can ask about any books they may suggest.Something else that helps is both me and my wife have seperate counselor to talk to. If you don't have counselors I would suggest looking into it. They can help with your depression and give him an outlet to blow steam off when he needs to. Also they will know of any books or websites that might help him. Hope this helps a little....praying for you and hubby. Tell him if he wants he or you can PM me anytime and I will be glad to help any way I can....God Bless