• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

Trimeresurus

Advocatus diaboli
Mar 6, 2018
183
119
39
Heidelberg
✟33,485.00
Country
Germany
Gender
Female
Faith
Other Religion
Marital Status
Private
To avoid misunderstandings I decided introduce myself too.
I’m 31, living in Germany, Heidelberg.

My religion is very different from Christianity. But two month ago my little brother who was an atheist before decided to join a Christian church. He seems to be happy with his new religion so I won’t hold him back. But still I know nothing about it. And that’s what brings me here. I promised him to read about it.

Of course I’m trying not to offend anyone here or be blasphemous. Still it might happen that there are misunderstandings of some kind. Maybe I will write something you don’t want to read. If so, feel free to tell me. A little “shut up” won’t hurt my feelings. As long as you don’t start a witch-hunt we are good.

So have a good day/evening/night everyone. (depending on your time zone)

Best wishes from grey and rainy Germany.
 

cacemf

Active Member
Site Supporter
Mar 3, 2018
49
85
Washington, DC
✟101,686.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married

Hello! Welcome to CF! I am new here, too, glad to have you with us!
 
Upvote 0

Chaplain David

CF Chaplain
Nov 26, 2007
15,989
2,353
USA
✟291,662.00
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Others

Hello,

I used to live in Heidelberg. I had many good times.

Learning about Christianity is a good idea. It can only help you. Of course you have the Holy Bible at your disposal. Thankfully, we also have the internet and sites that you can use to ask questions. One of the sites in particular is very good for questions and answers, it's called: www.gotquestions.org

Talking with members here could be a good way of both getting to know us and also finding out about God and what Christians believe.

Feel free to start a thread in the Ask a Chaplain Forum and you will be answered by an ordained minister. I and my fellow pastors have many years of varied ministry and experience under our belts. We'd be glad to talk with you and will do our best to answer any questions you may have.

Just click on the "Follow this link..." Sentence under my signature to access the Ask a Chaplain Forum and start your own thread. God bless you and I am praying for you.

Faithfully,
 
Reactions: brinny
Upvote 0

Trimeresurus

Advocatus diaboli
Mar 6, 2018
183
119
39
Heidelberg
✟33,485.00
Country
Germany
Gender
Female
Faith
Other Religion
Marital Status
Private

Thank you very much. I'll try to at least understand what this is all about. It seems to be very important to my brother.
Have you been at the US army station in Heidelberg? They closed it down in 2015 and now it is almost completly empty. Parts of it are used for asylum seekers but I'd rather have the army back
 
Reactions: brinny
Upvote 0

Steve Petersen

Senior Veteran
May 11, 2005
16,077
3,393
✟170,442.00
Faith
Deist
Politics
US-Libertarian


This is a terrible place to learn about Christianity. Nothing but bickering.
 
Reactions: brinny
Upvote 0

Dave-W

Welcoming grandchild #7, Arturus Waggoner!
Site Supporter
Jun 18, 2014
30,522
16,853
Maryland - just north of D.C.
Visit site
✟772,070.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Messianic
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Others
Hi and Welcome!

As you probably know, Christianity comes in many "flavors." The forums here have a variety of folders for various denominations and faith groups. If you have a denomination specific question, you can ask in one of those folders.

There are also a couple of General Theology type folders for more general questions.
 
Upvote 0

Dave-W

Welcoming grandchild #7, Arturus Waggoner!
Site Supporter
Jun 18, 2014
30,522
16,853
Maryland - just north of D.C.
Visit site
✟772,070.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Messianic
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Others
Reactions: brinny
Upvote 0

Trimeresurus

Advocatus diaboli
Mar 6, 2018
183
119
39
Heidelberg
✟33,485.00
Country
Germany
Gender
Female
Faith
Other Religion
Marital Status
Private
This is a terrible place to learn about Christianity. Nothing but bickering.

I can handle bickering. So far nobody was really unfriendly. I would never go to a church so the internet is a good place for baby steps.
 
Upvote 0

chevyontheriver

Well-Known Member
Site Supporter
Sep 29, 2015
23,246
20,216
Flyoverland
✟1,422,510.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-American-Solidarity
I got to see Heidelberg 40 years ago. A very nice place. Walked the 'Philosophers Walk'.
 
Reactions: brinny
Upvote 0

Trimeresurus

Advocatus diaboli
Mar 6, 2018
183
119
39
Heidelberg
✟33,485.00
Country
Germany
Gender
Female
Faith
Other Religion
Marital Status
Private
I got to see Heidelberg 40 years ago. A very nice place. Walked the 'Philosophers Walk'.

Glad you liked it. Luckily Heidelberg was not destroyed by WW2. All the arm companies have been in nearby Mannheim. So we still have all the old buildings and churches and also my beloved university. A lot of american university students live in Heidelberg since you can study for free.
 
Upvote 0

Southernscotty

Well-Known Member
Angels Team
Site Supporter
Mar 5, 2018
6,611
9,436
54
Arkansas
✟549,878.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Baptist
Marital Status
Celibate
I can handle bickering. So far nobody was really unfriendly. I would never go to a church so the internet is a good place for baby steps.
Welcome and I know this is all new to you as you stated but let me share something that might help you. You stated that you would never go to a church.
I am so saddened by this response .
First of all, church is not a brick and mortar building, but is a collective gathering of the saints. {ie Body of Christ} It can be anywhere that two or more gather.
I crave that special fellowship of being with others of christian faith to share in praise and worship together to our risen Saviour.
I believe that having others to lean on when times are tough is paramount to christian growth, Because
When we are weak, we go to church for support, When we are strong, we go to help those going through their trials in life, To be their strength.
To have loving caring christians to hold you and help you up when you stumble and as you travel the highway of life and lead you along through the Word of God is an awesome thing.

The internet is a great place to come to and help others in their walk or pray with them as needed. It however is not a good place to learn the truths of the Word simply because their are some very lost and confused people who have taken some scripture out of context and built a religion out of them.

I pray that you will reconsider on going to church, and try to find a good Spirit led one close to your home, It may take you awhile to find one that is right for you? but when you do find it, It will be so wonderful.
I minister to a small congregation here and while we lose out in numbers, we make up for it with love. I love having that close personal relationship with people, so that as we pray together I can put my arms around them, look them in the eyes and let them know they are loved and accepted here.
I wish everyone could feel the kind of love that we have and it all stems from Jesus having first loved us :] I am praying for your walk and praying that the trail you are on leads to Jesus :]
 
Reactions: brinny
Upvote 0

brinny

everlovin' shiner of light in dark places
Site Supporter
Mar 23, 2004
249,105
114,202
✟1,378,064.00
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Constitution

Hello Trimeresurus. Welcome to CF, and thank you for sharing about your little brother. (((hug)))
Trimeresurus
 
Reactions: Trimeresurus
Upvote 0

Trimeresurus

Advocatus diaboli
Mar 6, 2018
183
119
39
Heidelberg
✟33,485.00
Country
Germany
Gender
Female
Faith
Other Religion
Marital Status
Private

Thanks for welcoming me.
So this is what you do in church? Supporting and hugging each other? I had a different picture in mind. Sounds more like a community thing. You seem to be very passionate about your church. But still I'm not planning to change my religion at the moment. But maybe start liking chistianity one day. You never know...
 
Reactions: brinny
Upvote 0

Southernscotty

Well-Known Member
Angels Team
Site Supporter
Mar 5, 2018
6,611
9,436
54
Arkansas
✟549,878.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Baptist
Marital Status
Celibate
I wish it were a community thing and more would show this kind of love. LOL We love God very much and we do a lot of praising Him for His wonderful blessings. You see it's not about us. as much as it is about Him. God deserves so much more than we can ever give, But we can show love and appreciation together :]
 
Upvote 0

Petros2015

Well-Known Member
Jun 23, 2016
5,205
4,426
54
undisclosed Bunker
✟328,053.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Eastern Orthodox
Marital Status
Married
This is a terrible place to learn about Christianity. Nothing but bickering.

I disagree! LOL

My religion is very different from Christianity.

Welcome - it is wild west here, with many denominations and interpretations. Christianity is a personal journey I've found. You might ask a question here and get 5 different answers, but one thing it will encourage you to do is to seek God
 
Upvote 0

Trimeresurus

Advocatus diaboli
Mar 6, 2018
183
119
39
Heidelberg
✟33,485.00
Country
Germany
Gender
Female
Faith
Other Religion
Marital Status
Private

Your god or my god?
No seriously I guess everone has to find his own way trough this. Believe is always more emotional than rational. Christians are constantly talking about love. So that obviously the most important emotion for you. It is less important to me but I've never read the word "love" more often than here.
 
Reactions: Petros2015
Upvote 0

Southernscotty

Well-Known Member
Angels Team
Site Supporter
Mar 5, 2018
6,611
9,436
54
Arkansas
✟549,878.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Baptist
Marital Status
Celibate
Ok then, I HATE it that your not in a loving church. LOL
 
Reactions: Trimeresurus
Upvote 0