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seashale76

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You have feelings and intuition for a reason. Heed them. You know you don't want to really marry this guy. So, don't. Trust me, you'll be doing yourself a favor by listening to your doubts here. Don't string this relationship along. Make a clean break and move on.
 
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timothyu

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Picking out a good mate is unfortunately quite like eating at a buffet. You pick out what you believe is the best items while ignoring the rest, but if led to making a second trip, your selections are reduced even more to only the best to your liking. Don't compromise.
 
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Thanks. Good news, I didn't marry him. God told me to close the door on him so I did. Found out immediately after he had been living a double life. Was involved with another woman the whole time, got engaged to her about the same time he proposed to me and just married her in Nov. When I confronted him about this, he took no accountability and flipped it on me as though I was in the wrong. Still can't believe it, but glad I listened to God. I would probably be living in a real life nightmare had I gone ahead with the marriage.
 
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