OP:
If by cheating, you mean adultery:
if they cheated on you, sexually, then you have every right to end it but you also have the right to forgive, as the Lord our God forgave us. So if you want to put yourself through that situation, then it it your choice. God has given you a way out, if he did commit adultery but remember:
"Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body."
1 COR 6:18
The Bible says that once you are joined, you are one flesh. If he commits adultery with his body, then by definition, it is your body too and therefore are committing adultery also.
"But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace."
1 COR 7:15
God is calling you to peace, girl.
In your case, your partner truly doesn't see the cost of breaking a commandment that he so obviously is aware of. True ignorance is a different story but blatantly defying God is not very Christian.
"Keep your way far from her, and do not go near the door of her house, lest you give your honor to others and your years to the merciless, lest strangers take their fill of your strength, and your labors go to the house of a foreigner, and at the end of your life you groan, when your flesh and body are consumed," Proverbs 5:8-11
Do you believe that strangers will take fill of your strength if you stay with him and he keeps on blatantly disregarding God's commandments?
You can still help him, if you're not with him, if you feed him what is truly the word of God. God is giving you a way out. You can take God's gift and have one less stress in your life and possibly find a true God-fearing man or you can basically put yourself through something God isn't FORCING you to go through. We don't know the future and that means that it is possible for your current guy to start fearing God truly and to seriously become an asset in your relationship, if you both choose to do so, but although anything is possible with the Lord, trust is NOT easy to recuperate and you seriously need to test him HARD, if he wants you back. I mean, SERIOUSLY test him because as you already know, it IS hard to trust a man who has already cheated on you.
Psalm 118:8 It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in man.
So don't put your trust in him but instead put your trust in God. Take your time in making your decision because you do have options; God has provided you with an exit, if he truly committed adultery.
If by cheating, you mean adultery:
if they cheated on you, sexually, then you have every right to end it but you also have the right to forgive, as the Lord our God forgave us. So if you want to put yourself through that situation, then it it your choice. God has given you a way out, if he did commit adultery but remember:
"Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body."
1 COR 6:18
The Bible says that once you are joined, you are one flesh. If he commits adultery with his body, then by definition, it is your body too and therefore are committing adultery also.
"But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace."
1 COR 7:15
God is calling you to peace, girl.
In your case, your partner truly doesn't see the cost of breaking a commandment that he so obviously is aware of. True ignorance is a different story but blatantly defying God is not very Christian.
"Keep your way far from her, and do not go near the door of her house, lest you give your honor to others and your years to the merciless, lest strangers take their fill of your strength, and your labors go to the house of a foreigner, and at the end of your life you groan, when your flesh and body are consumed," Proverbs 5:8-11
Do you believe that strangers will take fill of your strength if you stay with him and he keeps on blatantly disregarding God's commandments?
You can still help him, if you're not with him, if you feed him what is truly the word of God. God is giving you a way out. You can take God's gift and have one less stress in your life and possibly find a true God-fearing man or you can basically put yourself through something God isn't FORCING you to go through. We don't know the future and that means that it is possible for your current guy to start fearing God truly and to seriously become an asset in your relationship, if you both choose to do so, but although anything is possible with the Lord, trust is NOT easy to recuperate and you seriously need to test him HARD, if he wants you back. I mean, SERIOUSLY test him because as you already know, it IS hard to trust a man who has already cheated on you.
Psalm 118:8 It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in man.
So don't put your trust in him but instead put your trust in God. Take your time in making your decision because you do have options; God has provided you with an exit, if he truly committed adultery.
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