he finally picked up papers

[mimi4him]

Ok stbx went yesterday to pick up divorce papers from lawyers office. He said he would call me when he got them but never did. I called to see if he got them this morning at lawyers office and found out he did.
Atleast that is done . Ive decied to be nice as possiable to him till divorce is over . All the fighting and name calling is just keeping me upset and it really doesnt matter what he has done or is doing now. Ive made my mind up that I deserve better and Im worth more than a cheater and lier.
Not that im going to go out and find someone soon . Im going to wait on God for that to happen if Im supposed to ever remarry again.
I am more at peace today just knowing he got the papers and now we can work on the next step of divorce agreeing on who pays what of our debt.
Hopefully after that is decided I will be even more less stressed just knowing what my finances will be in the future .
blessings
carol

 

[madison1101]

I would encourage you to get some counseling or therapy to help you learn about yourself in all of this. It has really helped me to self-examine and learn about who I am as a single woman. It has also given me peace about not dating for now, so that I can heal and grow independent of a relationship for now.

God has been faithful and I have learned how to depend on Him more and humans less.

Hugs,
Trish

 

[okiemommy26]

I am glad he picked them up. I decided to be nice too to my ex till the divorce is over. I figure it is the best for the kids to see us not fighting.

 

[AirForceTeacher]

Sorry mimi and Okie. I hope you two can cheer up. I'm worried about the same myself, but I'm trying to chill out.

 

[cjba]

mimi4him,

I am glad you are finding peace in this transition that is unfolding in your life. Yes, you are right you deserve a man who will love you and only you.

You continue to be in my prayers.

God Bless,

Lisa

 

[cjba]

Aft,

Why are you worried about the same thing happening. I thought you two were doing much better and past all this.

Keeping you and your family in prayer.

God Bless,

 

[imaniingod]

I am glad to hear from you!! God Bless you! Will be praying for you Mimi!

 

[imaniingod]

Sorry mimi and Okie. I hope you two can cheer up. I'm worried about the same myself, but I'm trying to chill out.

AFT, YOU KNOW WHAT HAS TO HAPPEN, PRAY, WHY BECAUSE YOUR HEAVEN FATHER HEARS YOU! DONT PRAY AND WORRY! JUST PRAY