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Musician4Jesus

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Being single is such a bust! I hate being lonely, especially in the romantic aspect! What I hate is, people who are in a godly romance telling me to just be content where I am. Excuse me?! They cannot relate to the pain and loneliness I'm feeling of being lonely in the romantic aspect! This really bothers me because they're saying how wonderful life is, well I can understand WHY when everything is going great for them! This year, I'm sorry, it really sucks....

I don't know how to find joy in life! I don't think things can becomae worse, and they do! Everything just keeps becoming worse! I have no hope, and I'm completely depleted emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

I haven't a clue how the heck to see myself as desirable and worthy to be loved in the romantic aspect.....
 
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Loner

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Cool. What part? Even close to Lambertville? (I used to drive horse-drawn carriages there... :))

Actully I just moved in from MD. I live in WoolWitch. But I still need to figuer out ware everything is. I will see If am near Lambertville.

Being single is such a bust! I hate being lonely, especially in the romantic aspect! What I hate is, people who are in a godly romance telling me to just be content where I am. Excuse me?! They cannot relate to the pain and loneliness I'm feeling of being lonely in the romantic aspect! This really bothers me because they're saying how wonderful life is, well I can understand WHY when everything is going great for them! This year, I'm sorry, it really sucks....

I don't know how to find joy in life! I don't think things can becomae worse, and they do! Everything just keeps becoming worse! I have no hope, and I'm completely depleted emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

I haven't a clue how the heck to see myself as desirable and worthy to be loved in the romantic aspect.....


.....Sorry to hear that.
 
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Godssong

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Being single is such a bust! I hate being lonely, especially in the romantic aspect! What I hate is, people who are in a godly romance telling me to just be content where I am. Excuse me?! They cannot relate to the pain and loneliness I'm feeling of being lonely in the romantic aspect! This really bothers me because they're saying how wonderful life is, well I can understand WHY when everything is going great for them! This year, I'm sorry, it really sucks....

I don't know how to find joy in life! I don't think things can becomae worse, and they do! Everything just keeps becoming worse! I have no hope, and I'm completely depleted emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

I haven't a clue how the heck to see myself as desirable and worthy to be loved in the romantic aspect.....
That's very tough...I wish I knew what to say. I do understand the frustration you're having with all your DATING friends telling you to be content...while the advice is accurate, the empathy isn't there... :( Have you been praying about these emotions, this pain, etc.? Do you have somebody good to talk to about it? I hope so! I know that always helps me!
 
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