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BJC

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First off, if it is god then it means nothing.

If it is God then it means everything to me.

God is so great that I cannot even understand why He does things but I am covered by His grace so I am so blessed.

god is a cow or an idle so I doubt it could love and it means nothing to me.
 
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sunshineforJesus

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Everything. The fact we don't deserve it and He still loves us anyway... says a lot about Him and His grace :)

Cliché perhaps, but sue me! :D

I agree,I'd be lost without his love!
 
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I was a Christian when I was a kid and for the majority of my teenage years and during this time I could never feel like God loved me. No matter how hard I tried. Honestly, it is strange seeing this concept so important for some people here. My personal belief as a Christian was that life on earth was for suffering and that God would only love you in the afterlife. This was about the only way I could explain my inadequate feelings.
 
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I was a Christian when I was a kid and for the majority of my teenage years and during this time I could never feel like God loved me. No matter how hard I tried. Honestly, it is strange seeing this concept so important for some people here. My personal belief as a Christian was that life on earth was for suffering and that God would only love you in the afterlife. This was about the only way I could explain my inadequate feelings.

Then you may have believed you were a Christian, but you never accepted or embraced the concept that God loves you "as is"...flaws and all. You didn't have to do anything to deserve this but rather He would (and still would) embrace you if you actually approached Him and accepted His unconditional love. The churches often teach that you have to behave a certain way to earn or deserve God's love but that is a lie and a way that prevents you from totally experiencing God's unconditional love.

This life often provides crap...that is true. But although it is hard to explain, knowing that God loves you enough to make His presence even in the midst of the crap. For me, it meant that as I sat in a final for a class that I was barely passing (and this would have forfeited my graduation by nine months)....and as panic and fear overwhelmed me a test was being passed out, as I gave over the results of this test to God saying that I trust that He had a plan for if I did have to delay my graduation, I was suddenly enveloped in a cloud of peace and serenity that is impossible to explain if you never have allowed Him enter in your life in that way. God provides internal comfort when the world provides conflict and stress.
 
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