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God blessed me after fertility struggles!

Pink_Lady

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Hi everyone, I just wanted to say hello. I'm 6 1/2 weeks pregnant, due in January 2012.

I wondered if I would ever be where I'm at today. I had always gotten my period, so never really thought I had a problem. Well, when ttc, I noticed I had an 8-10 day luteal phase, which means my uterine lining sheds itself before a fertilized egg can securely attach. Not a good thing, and I've had two chemical pregnancies probably because of it (positive test that faded to negative in a day or two, then my period). I also found through the use of ovulation prediction kits that my body constantly geared up to ovulate, but would often delay for 5 days or so. I would also bleed during ovulation (not spotting, but bleeding). I started seeing a fertility doctor in late March, shortly after a chemical pregnancy, and had planned to start clomid, ovulation trigger shot, and progesterone supplementation mid-May. I was really looking forward to overcoming my problems, yet nervous--what if treatments fail? During my whole time ttc, I kept feeling God say "Yes, but wait." I felt Him saying wait until after I get my master's degree, but I was impatient, and kept hardcore ttc, and when nothing happened, became frustrated with God, thinking I'll never get pregnant.

I got my master's degree on May 8 this year. As I was waiting for my period to come so I could start clomid, I decided, on a whim, to take a home pregnancy test. Positive! So exciting, but also nerve-racking--will this one stick? I went away to see family that weekend, sure I'd have my period before coming home. My period never came. I went to the doctor that Monday and got it confirmed I was pregnant. They did 3 blood draws to make sure my levels were rising appropriately, and they looked great. I am now 6 1/2 weeks according to my LMP (not entirely sure how far I really am, I might be a little less, I think I ovulated late, but this cycle was really erratic). Oh, and doctors also wanted to test my progesterone, since I had short luteal phases. I thought for sure it would be low, but it came back normal! I believe God stuck to His word all along--the "Yes, but wait," and he healed me! Praise be to Him!

Also, I am still very worried about a miscarriage, knowing they're common in the first trimester. I would be devastated if, after trying for awhile to get pregnant, I lost my baby. Please pray for God's protection. I keep feeling Him say, "Trust me," and reminding me that He is so great, He is the divine creator. But I still struggle with my faith. Please pray for God to send me His comfort, and strengthen my faith.
 

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Niffer

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Congrats!!
It's nerve-wracking, the threat of miscarriage - the only advice I can give you is:
Don't think about it!
If you worry you'll lose the baby, you'll lose the happiness of your first tri-mester!

I am so happy for you! I remember when I found out at 3 weeks, it seems just like yesterday! And now the baby will be here in less than a month!

Time flies! Enjoy being pregnant!!

-Niffer
 
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cmarie423

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Congrats! That's so exciting! I'm due in January as well and have some infertility issues myself so I was so excited I was pregnant. I have issues with miscarriage too but luckily this pregnancy I'm not as worried about it. I think I won't have an issue this time and it sounds like God wanted you to have the baby this time around so it doesn't sound like it'll be an issue for you either. I'm so excited for you. Do you have a preference on the sex of the baby? :]
 
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