so how bout u just do it! i mean, believe me, u'll love it. i once told my youth pastor about my dream that i would one day like to b part of the worship team. well, i think about 3 years went by, and i decided to start going to their practices, not missing a day, even though it was early saturday mornings. then i decided to join choir, just cause i like singing. i didn't wanna sing by myself, that's y. so when i joined, pastor asked me if i could sing for him, when we were in choir practice. i was like, "***, me? but i don't have the voice. i sound awful." and i was shocked! turns out that i had the priviledge to open the Easter MEdley for Easter service, which was a solo part for a guy. so while i was singing that sunday, i was nervous, thinking if what if i make a mistakes or squeak. so later that day, ppl came up to me and told me that i had a beautiful voice. of course i did not believe them, or was afraid to believe them. so then by the end of the year, my friend who sings in the worship team, who's pastor's niece, decided that it was time for me to tell her uncle (pastor) that i wanted to b part of the worship team. and so pastor called me up, along with my youth pastor, who is the other singer, and they decided that they would like me to b part of them. so basically pastor told me that i would only b singing on wednesday nights, not sundays, but that didn't happen. i sang on wednesday night, and by sunday, i was singing, which i thought was weird since pastor had mentioned to me that i would only b singing on wednesdays. so i have been singing foe about 3 years in the worship team, the only male vocalist, besided pastor's. i still lack the confidence that i need. i sometimes think that i don't have the voice to b singing, but pastor says that i would just get better with practice. i still get nervous when i'm singing. i sometimes don't sing right into the mic, for fear of hearing my voice.
Just go ahead and be part of the worship team. they will all help u build ur confidence. believe me, they helped me. go for it!