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my God! get me out of here! im screaming for help but only find temporary relief! how long will i cry and have nightmares, dreams that leave me wanting him when i awake? when will i be heard?? when will i be understood by someone. when will i find love? i want to find love in you, so why is there still such a hole in my heart? help me someone. im afflicted greatly.:groupray:
 

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What seems to be the problem. I don't quite understand what you mean by him? A lost bf or Jesus. Cos Jesus hears you clearer then I do but if it's a bf then let the Lord heal that womb because I have dealt with the same trial. I used to love someone so much that I cried out to God to bring us back together but, to my disappointment it wasn't meant to be. But God the Father hears you. I have faith and so do you. Just be patient Good days will come back.
 
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I got better from BPD with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, medication, and mentorship with a mature Christian woman. I don't need a man to love me. The Lord is sufficient to meet all my needs.

Get into a Women's Bible Study and find a mature woman to mentor you in the Lord. Get therapy, and see if you need meds.

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my God! get me out of here! im screaming for help but only find temporary relief! how long will i cry and have nightmares, dreams that leave me wanting him when i awake? when will i be heard?? when will i be understood by someone. when will i find love? i want to find love in you, so why is there still such a hole in my heart? help me someone. im afflicted greatly.:groupray:

If you are saying you have borderline, then God has already provided the way out for you. You have to stop believing the lies that make you act borderline. I am not sure what it is exactly, but it is probably lies like "I'm worthless" or "I'm unlovable" - God's Word proclaims that is not true but you have to believe that and stand on it.
 
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