I have a close friend who I met at church. We've known each other for 3 years. It's been this last year that we've became closer. We are both dealing with an ED. We don't compare we talk to one another about it once and awhile ask what got you through this situation or just simply say this is a rough day will you just talk to me or come hang out. And are able to call each other on our times when we slip. It's nice to have some that knows what your going through and doesn't judge. You don't feel as though your an alien on this planet. So we were blown out of the water when the pastors wife who has not rerally been in touch with our lifes in a long time said that we should not be hanging out together because we have similiar issues. Why give the opinion if your not aware of were we are in our lives or with our ED? We have never been in competition with our ED. Only try to help each other out by listening. We both have doctors and counselors to listen to. We know that we are right with our relationships with God. We now that it could be stronger. Whose couldn't though? We feel that our relationship is a blessing from God and that if it weren't for him and each other we would not be were we are today. We are not willing to end our relationship. Is this right.
