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<blockquote data-quote="katerinah1947" data-source="post: 69099218" data-attributes="member: 373043"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>You and your wife are one. It only takes about seven years.</p><p></p><p>Oneness was the consequence of your Free Will choice to Marry.</p><p></p><p>Even verbally, it starts instantly with her yes to you, with caveats.</p><p></p><p>The caveats are, both of you wanted to, both of you were capable emotionally, and both of you entered into the arrangement, honestly, and under no duress, even emotional or societal pressures.</p><p></p><p>In my case, I did want to marry my guy. I just kept it from myself and from Him also.</p><p></p><p>He wanted me. I did actually not know my feelings, as I had hidden this so well even from myself. He asked me. And, I still did not know that I did want to marry That Guy.</p><p></p><p>So, the feelings between us, were mutual, and I never let on and neither did He. So, duress was never there.</p><p></p><p>I freely chose what I wanted. I did. He was never ever told by me, of my feelings, and I had little to do with Him, on a personal level, in fact Nothing ever happened between us on a personal level.</p><p></p><p>So, there was no hint from Him, and there was no hint from me. In working with and for Him, I was rather stunned at something He did to another man.</p><p></p><p>I kept telling myself, not understanding. Him? Him! Her also. He sent me in on him.</p><p></p><p>That man was so far out, from any recognizable goodness, that after I was done, in that assignment, I just kept being pleased in how deep He would go, and to whom He would go to do things for, for some reason, such as He is just that Good of a Guy.</p><p></p><p>Before I was asked, those who knew me, and liked and Loved Him, came to me, told me nothing, but cleared the way for Him to be able to ask me. (All guys do that)</p><p></p><p>In my final clearance, I had told His Son, that I just don't want anything from anybody or even Him long term.</p><p></p><p>I would not know till later, that what I was actually saying, is there is no one to love and no one to love me, and I am perfectly okay with that.</p><p></p><p>Free Will was all over my marriage proposal. I did though trust, in my guy, that somehow if I wanted this, to be married to him, it would all work out somehow.</p><p></p><p>I did want to marry him. I was scared. I did say YES!, not yes. It has worked out. Not everyday seems perfect, but I would have it no other way. I love being married to my guy. Every normal girl feels the same way.</p><p></p><p>What most marriages get in trouble with, I think, is each person not allowing for natural differences, because of eventually wanting a perfect marriage, and accidentally thinking that will come from he becoming more like her gender emotion and thinking wise, and her becoming more like him gender emotion and thinking wise.</p><p></p><p>The most mature relationships are not based on understanding each other in those ways, it is in understanding that those ways make zero difference except, in allowing him to be him, and her to be her, in ways each of you will normally never, ever understand.</p><p></p><p>Guys, just really want women to be women, but forget that. Women just want guys to be guys, but forget that in time also.</p><p></p><p>Those years of, she must be and understand me, for guys, and he must understand and be me emotionally for women, are the hard years.</p><p></p><p>Usually, it takes another woman to straighten out the errant woman. Usually it takes another man to straighten out the errant man.</p><p></p><p>And when each realizes their true contribution to the marriage, such as most men think deeply about a single subject and most women think broadly about a lot of subjects, even that makes a difference. Women can normally handle tons of inputs, thus continual constant and overlapping inputs from the house, children, the husband, etc etc etc, and the husband can handle the deep thinking, to help and guide and yes even direct those male centric items, necessary to survival,,,,,also.</p><p></p><p>Free will, in this case, might be: Will I accept or not, the way things actually are, versus the way I think they could or should be?</p><p></p><p>With God, it is up to a person to Honestly or not, accept what the person knows of the likelihood or not of the existence of God, whether or not they understand What God is yet, sufficient to have the proof.</p><p></p><p>Do we have Free Will, it seems that we do have.</p><p></p><p>Only our attempts at Absolute Honesty in all things and with all people, result in our knowing or not God exists, if that is God's Will on that item also, for us now.</p><p></p><p>LOVE,</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="katerinah1947, post: 69099218, member: 373043"] Hi, You and your wife are one. It only takes about seven years. Oneness was the consequence of your Free Will choice to Marry. Even verbally, it starts instantly with her yes to you, with caveats. The caveats are, both of you wanted to, both of you were capable emotionally, and both of you entered into the arrangement, honestly, and under no duress, even emotional or societal pressures. In my case, I did want to marry my guy. I just kept it from myself and from Him also. He wanted me. I did actually not know my feelings, as I had hidden this so well even from myself. He asked me. And, I still did not know that I did want to marry That Guy. So, the feelings between us, were mutual, and I never let on and neither did He. So, duress was never there. I freely chose what I wanted. I did. He was never ever told by me, of my feelings, and I had little to do with Him, on a personal level, in fact Nothing ever happened between us on a personal level. So, there was no hint from Him, and there was no hint from me. In working with and for Him, I was rather stunned at something He did to another man. I kept telling myself, not understanding. Him? Him! Her also. He sent me in on him. That man was so far out, from any recognizable goodness, that after I was done, in that assignment, I just kept being pleased in how deep He would go, and to whom He would go to do things for, for some reason, such as He is just that Good of a Guy. Before I was asked, those who knew me, and liked and Loved Him, came to me, told me nothing, but cleared the way for Him to be able to ask me. (All guys do that) In my final clearance, I had told His Son, that I just don't want anything from anybody or even Him long term. I would not know till later, that what I was actually saying, is there is no one to love and no one to love me, and I am perfectly okay with that. Free Will was all over my marriage proposal. I did though trust, in my guy, that somehow if I wanted this, to be married to him, it would all work out somehow. I did want to marry him. I was scared. I did say YES!, not yes. It has worked out. Not everyday seems perfect, but I would have it no other way. I love being married to my guy. Every normal girl feels the same way. What most marriages get in trouble with, I think, is each person not allowing for natural differences, because of eventually wanting a perfect marriage, and accidentally thinking that will come from he becoming more like her gender emotion and thinking wise, and her becoming more like him gender emotion and thinking wise. The most mature relationships are not based on understanding each other in those ways, it is in understanding that those ways make zero difference except, in allowing him to be him, and her to be her, in ways each of you will normally never, ever understand. Guys, just really want women to be women, but forget that. Women just want guys to be guys, but forget that in time also. Those years of, she must be and understand me, for guys, and he must understand and be me emotionally for women, are the hard years. Usually, it takes another woman to straighten out the errant woman. Usually it takes another man to straighten out the errant man. And when each realizes their true contribution to the marriage, such as most men think deeply about a single subject and most women think broadly about a lot of subjects, even that makes a difference. Women can normally handle tons of inputs, thus continual constant and overlapping inputs from the house, children, the husband, etc etc etc, and the husband can handle the deep thinking, to help and guide and yes even direct those male centric items, necessary to survival,,,,,also. Free will, in this case, might be: Will I accept or not, the way things actually are, versus the way I think they could or should be? With God, it is up to a person to Honestly or not, accept what the person knows of the likelihood or not of the existence of God, whether or not they understand What God is yet, sufficient to have the proof. Do we have Free Will, it seems that we do have. Only our attempts at Absolute Honesty in all things and with all people, result in our knowing or not God exists, if that is God's Will on that item also, for us now. LOVE, [/QUOTE]
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